Who should use Oasis Forums

Just kids?
4% (1 vote)
just those over 21?
0% (0 votes)
just the GLBT community?
25% (6 votes)
just str8's?
0% (0 votes)
any one of any age or sexual orientation?
71% (17 votes)
Total votes: 24

Have you ever gone skinny dipping???

yes ,,,i enjoyed it very much.
33% (5 votes)
yes but i didnt enjoy it
7% (1 vote)
yes, but i was embarased
7% (1 vote)
no i have never but i want to someday
40% (6 votes)
no i havent and i dont want to
13% (2 votes)
no and i would never do such a immoral thing
0% (0 votes)
what is skinny dipping????
0% (0 votes)
Total votes: 15
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IMVU Yay, another place to talk

I found such a neat place to talk, chat, exchange ideas, and such. It is a chat room, but so unlike any that i found before. Here i can see who i am talking to and interact with them. No not their pic, not a cam, but a avaitar type of thing, a sim if u will. i choise a body type, a hair style, clothing to ware, and so on until i had a person who looked like me looking back at me on the monitor. It was so cool. Then i clicked on the chat now button. WOW was i supprised. A furry person was chatting with me and i could see her. I was astounded by what i saw. Totally radical to me. I found that there were youth clubs, gay clubs, womens clubs and more. That i could jump, dance, wave, and even kiss and hug the person i was talking to. I could never do that in MSN or yahoo. But here I could experience a more interesting, and fulfilling chat. Yeah the idiots who hate us are there, just like any where we go and chat. But the main diff was i could actually hit back. I kicked this one bigot in the nads. Ha Ha so sweet to see HIM bend over and be in pain. I educate so many there on just who I am and what it is like to be GAY! I have opened many minds. And tried to open many more, and may have done so.

I have chatted to ppl from France, Germany, Egypt, Japan, China, USA, Canada, Mexico and well,from all over the world. I found gays, str8, bi, les, trans, Furrys, Winged creatures, Dogs, cats, lions, and so many other type of personalities out there that i did not know existed before. I have talked politicts, health, money, sex, cooking, and other topics like never before.
This is starting to sound like and advertisement, ha ha.
But these are my true feelings, and that is a lot from an old man
My son. David is on IMVU, he is 16, and gay also. He use's the most unusuial nick name of Davidsboner to chat with and to be represnetive of him . Ha Ha , what a nickname. I still use my regular one of Oldfoxbob. I have enjoyed talking there
seeing others as they want to be seen by the world. I am not saying join, but if u read this and do join, send me a message that u did. And u can use me as the first chat and ill teach ya how to do things that u cant learn any other way. Love Ya guys, gals. TTL as they say in chat.
lol
Bye bye
OldfoxBob

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Wish for all of you.

Boring....Yesterday, today, and tomorrow I am going to be snowed in.
We have had over 22 inches of snow in the last two weeks. Drifts block the roads, Hiways are slick with snow and ice. Old man Winter is doing his work well. Ah such is the life living in Colorado. Its great if you ski, but there is no hills where I live to ski on. Its flat here in the eastern plains of the state.
Nothing to do but play on the computer. I got a new game for the pc at xmas called Command and Conquer. Adictive it is...Yuri's revenge is hard if you play it brutal.
No real news to enter into the journal otherwise, so Just wanted to wish all of you a happy new year for the 2007 year. May you all be healthy and find the love of your life, have safe sex, and enjoy the love.
oldfoxbob

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Thank you to you all

your heartfelt feelings make me feel better. I do have contact with the girl but feel it is now better off left alone....one conselation is that we named the boy, she now has to rename it and it will cost her 300 dollars to do that.
Also She had nothing for the baby at all, no crib, no clothes, no food etc. So she must shell out a lot of money now and she doesnt have it... I feel so sorry for the baby who fortunately wont remember it as he grows older.
We did give her some clothes for Derik, and some formula as well as two bottles. She is on her own for the rest. We just could not leave "Him" suffer for her stupidity...
Again thanks for your thoughts and words.
You are as always a group of good friends who are there when we need each other.
oldfoxbob

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Damn her all to Hell!!!!!! NO BABY AFTER ALL!!!

It seems that my lover and I are on an emotional roll-a-coster ride. We had the adoption papers all signed, The baby was born, and all seemed to be in order...then...SHIT happens....The mother changes her mind because the Dr who is a Christian Fundamentalist Baptist told her that she should not give up a child to a "Gay Couple" as it will get aids.
Where in Gods name did he get that crap....He is supposed to be a Dr. and know you dont get aids by touching someone. And a negitive hiv test means no HIV or Aids....So...We do NOT get to get the baby after all...We are just heartbroken...All the time, effort, and emotional effort not to mention the money we spent ( over $5000.00) to do this and its all for nothing.
Damn Her all to hell.
We cant get our money back from the Lawyer as he did what he was supposed to do. We can recover some money by returning the clothes.toys, diapers, bottles and so on back to where we got them...How do you return things you got at a baby shower? you cant.
Damn Her all to Hell!!!!
I am now too old to try once again...it took us 13 years to get this far.
We have tried and tried in the past but always hit brick walls.
Well we hit the final wall today. We give up...unless someone out here wants to be adopted as our son.
oldfoxbob

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ITS A BOY

Derik Ian was born today at 3:06 am, 7 lbs 3 1/2 oz , 22 inches long.
all ten toes and fingers, redish blond hair and steel gray eyes.
I am the happest person in the world right now.
We get to take him home on Weds. afternoon...
oldfoxbob

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night after christmas

Twas the night after christmas,
and all thru the house,
every creature was sturring ,
including the mouse.

The stockings were thrown,
in the corner who cared,
dishes were piled ,
miles high up the stairs.

Grand pa and Grand ma
were singing a song,
while junior was upstairs,
a flinging his dong.

The children were all snug,
and tucked in to bed,
while visions of tits and dicks,
danced in their heads.

Ma and I just settled down
to a long sexy night,
when up on the roof, a crash...
what a fright!!!

Quick out of bed
I flew like a flash,
tripped on my dick,
and put my head thru the sash.

Out on the lawn,
I saw such a fright,
a fat drunken man,
Oh God....what a sight.

His hand on his dick,
pissing in snow.
writing some words,
that from here I didn't know.

He jumped in his sleigh,
and with a roar from his belly,
he belched real loud,
and shook like jelly.

On dasher, on comet,
on cupid, on blitzen,
get up you old bastards,
Or your balls I'll be kicken.

Then I heard him exclame,
as he rode out of sight,
Piss on you all,
its a hell of a night!

Holloween...or...All Saints Eve...or Samhain, ...or Sollon etc etc etc What do you call it?

Holloween
67% (55 votes)
All saints 'Eve
1% (1 vote)
Samhain
16% (13 votes)
sollon
0% (0 votes)
other
2% (2 votes)
havent a clue
0% (0 votes)
we dont do that here where I live
5% (4 votes)
who cares
7% (6 votes)
Holloween isnt that what casper has one of?
1% (1 vote)
Total votes: 82
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surgery is over and I am fine.

Last tuesday was the last heart surgery I should need...Dr said I would need about 3 or 4 months off to recooperate and then I can go back to work...thank goodness...I am bored sitting around the house all the time...We met with the babys mother this week and she will provide breast milk for two months for the baby...That is a blessing for us...saves money on formula and is the best for the baby too as he will get the antibodys and enzimes he needs to keep him healthy for some time...Thank you all for the best wishes too...It means so much to Robb and I for them...Its good to be back and well...talk to you all later and as needed as always..
oldfoxbob

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Its a boy!!!

This week end we visited with the babys mother and she gave us pics of the ultra sound..Its a BOY!!!!!! We plan on naming him "Derik Ian" ( the ian is long I sound as in "eye an" not "ee an") my partner is scared to death...I have had kids before and know how to do things but he has never changed a diaper or even held a baby...He will make a good daddy though...I am so thrilled I can hardly stand it...10 weeks from now is the due date...

In other news:
I have my heart surgery this tuesday and am a bit scared there...All should go well and hopefully this will be the last time for the surgery...or I will be perminately disabled if it is not sucessfull...So hopefully things will go well as I so want to be a part of the babys life...
All for now
Ta Ta.
oldfoxbob

I need a middle name for a baby I may be adopting soon...See my journal please...oldfoxbob

Shilo
9% (2 votes)
Pam
0% (0 votes)
Beth
9% (2 votes)
Hazel
57% (13 votes)
you fill in the blank here
26% (6 votes)
Total votes: 23
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I may be a daddy soon

The girl friend of my room mates brother has become preg...She is 16, not able to care for a baby and has asked my lover and I if we would be willing to adopt it...We dont know if it will be a boy or girl but we really dont care...We have tried to adopt for years but cant afford the 25 thousand dollars that the agencys cost...we can however afford the atty fees to do a private adoption. She said she will take care of the medical expencesif we handle the legal ones...so we MAY be come daddys sometime in late November or December as she is not sure of the due date...(kids)
Damn that makes me so happy...I am walking on air and clouds if things do go our way and we have a child...If its a boy we have thought of Derick Ian as a name...If a girl we thought of Shilo but no middle name yet have to give it thougth... any suggestions from anyone?
oldfoxbob
(is not feeling so old today)

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All Packed

and ready to move...Damn I have a lot of junk to move...We got the truck today, 53 feet long...Loaded all the boxes from our three bedroom house into it and tomorrow our friends show to help load the furniture into it...then the treck 150 miles east to nowhere to live for the next year or so and then do it all over again...ugg

I hate moving....
See ya all next week some time...
oldfoxbob

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