to those of us who are yet to come out. whatever you do, don't lose your identity, don't let the cover up lies and the deception take control of you and don't let yourself get too jaded, you can do more harm to yourself by hiding then by comming out. take care of yourselves
adam

READ sigmund FREUD's THEORIES, IT'LL MAKE YOU BETTER, U'LL UNDERSTAND U'RSELF.

do any of you know the time difference between the USA and Australia? whenever i'm online here nobody else is! :'(

should i tell my parents i'm gay now? my sister is leaving tommorow, which is great coz she's a little bitch. my dad is in vietnam, which is good coz i don't want to tell him till after my mum, or maybe i should let my mum tell him, yeah i'm a coward! so only my mum, me and my little sister are here, and i have five friends who know i'm gay now, one of them is gay himself. i know i'm gay, i've had four years of pondering and several large cushes, but thing is, as of yet no boyfriend, i live in a hole in north east australia where they make rum! actaully, i'm completely inexperienced, havne't kissed a guy, still a virgin.

arbitrary title, i apologise!
i have a question! i came on this site for two reasons, i wanted to find people who are supportive and are in the same situation as me, and i wanted to share what i know and maybe even give advice to people who are younger and are going through things i already have gone through right. but, the line is kind of blurred to me, is that what this site is for? or there an element of dating agency here? i'm not really looking for a boyfriend here, not at all in fact, especially since a lot of you guys are from the USA, i'm in Australia, would be hard. i guess my question is, does anybody use this site as a dating site?

went to a b'day party and saw my friends for the first time since i came out to my best friend, twas funny, like we had this secret that only we knew and we were toying around with other ppl's heads. it's cruel i know, but funny, i enjoyed that! WOHO GOING TO A GAY BAR FIRST TIME NEXT WEEK! advice anyone?

yep, i only know one gay person, his name i can't say because he's real private about it, his choice i know and i respect that, so i'll just call him.. "jamie" (not his real name). anyway, this guy was the first to know i'm gay, obviously, i was because he was the first guy i ever hit on, which backfired in my face when it turned out he has a fucking awesome saint as a long term boyfriend! ah don't be so spiteful adam.

i'm exclusively gay and a male, and my best friend is an extremely homophobic but awesome guy who i love very much (in a non-sexual way, we're like brothers). about 3 days ago i told him i was gay and he took it suprisingly wel. and since then i've seen him twice for two fairly long and very in depth conversation about where we stand and what my being gay means to our friendship and what his boundaries are (being homophobic he makes a lot of gay jokes that i find offensive so i asked him to stop, but really he's being so good about it).

i recently met a girl called mindi and decided since i'm comming out it'll be easier to tell people i'm gay when i begin a friendship with them rather than when i've had a friendship with them for ages, they feel betraeyed and shit. so today i told mindi that this "person" i've liked for the last...week, is actually a man,then i basically just waited for a response. to my shock, they girl actaully seemed to be happier at the fact that i'm gay then before when she assumed i was straight, freakout huh? so that was great, the best person to come out to in the world is mindi, we should all come out to her!

THIS IS A RECORD OF THE COMING TO BE OF A HOMOSEXUAL. RECORDS LIKE THIS HAVE EXISTED ALL THROUGH HISTORY, BUT HAVE BEEN SUBJECT TO CENSORSHIP, HAVE BEEN SUBJECT TO DESTRUCTION, TO CULTURAL CLEANSING, VANDALISM AND ORAL ALTERATION AS WELL AS PERSECUTION AND SUPPRESSION.

BUT I, ADAM ALEXANDER NATHANIEL DAVID JAMES ANDERSON, BORN ON THE 9TH OF FEBRUARY, 1998 IN ISRAEL, THE HOLY LAND, WILL NOT BE SILENCED, I WILL NOT STAND BY AND LET SOCIETY KILL ME, I WILL FIGHT FOR MY RIGHT TO EXIST. THROUGH THE SWEAT AND BLOOD, WHICH I GIVE WHOLEHEARTEDLY, I WILL BE HEARD.

so unfair