Just a quick link to my latest pic =) It involves a jacuzzi and a face from my past. click for more ...

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So a quick update on my date on monday is probably in order.

it has been followed in quick succession with another 2 dates, soon the be a third. The interesting part is , that I have not slept with this boy, and we have infact decided to wait until we both feel it's the right time.

It's not only not the usual way of doing things, but it all just feels right. And the more time i spend around him, the more i think i might be falling for him. And the situation is very hopefull.

I'm meeting up with the boy from this weekend for sex coffee. I am really excited about all the "possibilities"

*update* the date has been moved from tomorrow night until .. right about now. wish me luck. and i will play safe *knowing grin*

Went to a house warming party that I didnt even know was happening until like 3-4 hours before i went.

Was such a great evening, really. Saw a lot of people I hadnt seen in a long time .. bonded with those i see regularly .. and somewhere .. along the line.. managed to consume a barrel full of psychoactive substances of much variety and volume.. ahhh.

So besides all the warm fuzzy feelings, pretty colours and other stuff, i managed to meet someone. I met him at the party, he's tall .. dark .. handsome ... 23.. smart .. well hung (*evil grin*) .. interesting ... and involved. Or atleast partly , or casually involved with another acquaintance of mine (who was also at this party.).

makes adrian a really productive little boy.

I've been pulling double time on most work days , because i am just so motivated with oasis stuff at the moment it's scary *g*

Anyway .. i started watching the showtime version of Queer as Folk , finally .. it's only been on my todo list for years.

Anyway , I am really enjoying it.. it is slightly less accurate about my actual comings and goings than the UK version (which felt very 'true'). Maybe it's just because i am growing out of my disco diva/club slag days .. or maybe it's because the american version feels more 'plastic' ...

So I admitted it.. I love comic books. Although I havent ever actively collected them =)

I finished all of the Sandman books last year, along with the 2 death graphic novels and the Dream Hunters sandman graphic novel. Without a doubt one of the most magical and expertly told tales I have ever experienced, in any medium.

So last night, I started reading Transmetropolitan, which is uniformly stunning , dark, twisted and macabre. My friend who got me into it described it as 'imagine if every sick and twisted little fantasy that appears on any corner of the internet were to become the social norm', it has necrophillia , extreme body modification, death, blood + gore, violence , sex, prositution, pedophillia and lots lots more, all wrapped in a very cynical little tale that manages to throw social commentary at you from every angle. It's dark and it's brilliant.

List of gay comic characters

Frames still suck, and i'm being forced to make them against my will , better judgement and professional advice. It's like selling you soul to satan , except with the express intent that he violently and repeatedly anally rape you with a broadsword. You can see the end result.. but you are rapidly careening towards a cliff with no breaks and still accelating insanely.

On top of that it's been a very tense day , I havent slept.. i got some very bad news regarding a very close friend of mine, whose entire future now hangs in the balance and the hands of some other undisclosed person. I havent slept. My favorite club is closing .. and I've had this feeling of impending doom for the last month that my 'party' days are over.

the one thing that will never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever *breathes* ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever *breathe* be allowed/used on oasis is a html frame of any sort.

that is all i have to say..

Sorry guys.. i am having a moonerism spoment. Friday was a public holiday .. it was fantastic. I slept 18 hours out of every 24 this weekend. When i wasnt asleep i was jacked up on smurf juice (dont ask.. heh) reading Neil Gaiman.

Anyway , I saw my mom this weekend for the first time in about 6 months.. she introduced me to her new boyfriend. Me and her have this understanding that she has shit taste in men. It progressed from an unspoken truth to something i will throw in her face everytime it comes up since she chose her then boyfriend soon to be ex husband over me and my brother when I was 15. I didnt see her for about 2 years, although we kept in touch telephonically.

So it's Out In Africa again.. last year I went to see 1 movie.. which was the second movie I had ever walked out of (Beau Travail (sp) , Phantom Menace being the first).

This year however.. there are so many movies I have to go see..

most notably , Fluffer, O Boys , Luster , The Man That I Love, Sex, Politics and Cocktails , Sordid Lives and Webcam Boys (the 'sequel' to 101 Rent Boys)

I have been working on oasis all day .. which is good .. even though I have been reading documentation for most of the day , I do feel i've gotten quite far today =) .. plus i learnt some 1337 new tricks =)

i met another gay web designer party animal my age (who didnt fall down an ugly tree i'll tell you that) .. and then .. on top of that i got a top of the range queen size bed. (fit for a princess.. and please.. no pea cracks.. i have heard them all.. including the one about the tea drinking lesbians)

I need to go sleep now.. mmmm .. sleep

Firstly.. i havent gone to sleep yet ... but there is a good reason for this.. as there always is.

Today i wrapped up a multi-million dollar project, which will be used by thousands of people... everyday .. in almost a dozen countries worldwide. I did all this by myself , and the system I have written is probably the system I am most proud of (since it is all my code, and it works.. well!).

Well then, there we are.. finally ..

Well, the weekend was marvelous once again, as my weekends are all apt to being (give or take 3 fabulocity points).

Friday involved a big beat-em-up evening with my friends, with me finding my legs in marvel vs capcom , and mortal kombat 2. Switched over to Snow Brothers and Dungeons & Dragons : Shadows over Mystara later in the night though.