
Clothes aren't gendered.
In fact, we as a society, are responsible for socially constructing meanings and attaching them to different genders. So dresses in and of themselves have no gender. But we attach dresses to female-identified people, and so we come to think of dresses as a woman's outfit.
Anyway, its weird because there are clothes I want to wear but I want to wear them with a flat chest. And only with a flat chest, so that doesn't really work.
I'm disappointed, though.
I really want to wear v-neck shirts, and tank tops. But not with a chest.
Blah.
It's late and I'm getting tired/lazy and whiny (I think?) so I'll write more on this topic later. I'm hoping I can do one journal entry a day, if possible.
~Eli.
As always, feel free to leave comments or ask questions, etc.
Comments
My boyfriend looks awesome in v-necks and tank tops...
I'm sure you will, too, if you decide to get yours flattened surgically, or bind them (I'm not sure if the binding would peek though) C:
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That's redick!
:) Boys in v-necks / boys in
:)
Boys in v-necks / boys in tank tops are awesome :D
I need to get a better binder first, if I'm going to do that, but I'd love to :)
i agree
clothes shouldn't have genders
also Ian looks hot in a vest
:D Agree agree who?
:D Agree agree
who?
hes my crush
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And...
...is he yours? Crossed fingers! :)
hes never going to be mine :'(
i won't ever see him again after the 25th either
That's really tough...
I don't know what else to say... :(
its ok
i just need time
"there are clothes I want to
"there are clothes I want to wear but I want to wear them with a flat chest"
THIS
Social constructions around gender are wierd and there's no easy way to unpack them without threatening other people's identities, be they cis or trans*.