
So this neighbour who I regularly babysit for included me in a group email with a link for a petition, protesting that marriage should only be between a man and woman. Classic 'what's next' stuff following: polygamy, paedophilia, sex with ducks etc.
I'd like to take this moment to say that otherwise she is the loveliest, sweetest person you could meet. She's also *cough* my main source of income.
So here's where I stand.
My conscience will bully me until I reply to the email. It's inevitable, I have to do it. Mainly I'm going to request that she doesn't send me any more emails, but I've been up for like two hours phrasing and re-phrasing the whole thing.
The whole thing stems from my belief that if you remain silent, it's implicit that you agree with what the other person says. I feel like teaching her a lesson, because, well... I was fucking pissed off by it.
I give my email adress to people I want to hear from for various reasons. I gave it to UCAS so it could update me on my university applications. I gave it to my brother so we could keep in touch while he was at uni. And I gave it to her so we could organise babysits more effectively. Not so she could send me explicit, hateful homophobic propaganda.
What offends me more is that she included me in the sending of a petition against gay marriage. Expecting that I would sign it.
So she's a nice person otherwise, so I know she'll feel guilty at least for sending it to me when I explain the situation.
I guess I'm trying to calculate whether it's fully worth it to me yet. I'll leave it for the morning because I tend to make pretty crap decisions late at night. I guess the main feeling was just shock from it coming from her.
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Hey I'm new here was just
Hey
I'm new here was just reading around the journals and felt anger at this one so thought I'd comment :)
Bloody hell, definitely reply in an angry way, she can't just assume like that? I'm assuming she doesn't know that you're gay because if she did quit and get a new job! That's just crazy. I'm also assuming you're American, because English people just don't do that... I don't think.. I hope not anyway, we tend not to say what we think too often if it could cause trouble. We are quiet souls.
Why don't you post the draft for some feedback?
we must choose between what is right and what is easy. - J. K. Rowling
Nope, english! That's part
Nope, english! That's part of the reason I was surprised, we generally don't get stuff like this.
Coalition for marriage is on the rise, my friend. Hopefully we have enough... not insane people in paliament to defend us xD
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That is crazy! Is she like,
That is crazy! Is she like, BNP or something? Mental... elph is probably right though, best not to be too angry. Just assertive :)
we must choose between what is right and what is easy. - J. K. Rowling
Nothing gained by an angry response...
But, if you do choose to respond (probably not obligatory), keep it neutral: "I realize that this is an important issue to a few, but as I am a youth who's still trying to become intelligently informed with facts, it would be best for me to not comment at this time."
Argh, I ended up sending a
Argh, I ended up sending a very frosty email that said that I didn't want to be included on those types of mailing lists.
Yeah, it probably wasn't obligatory to respond, but it was just a compulsion to at least say something! I'm glad at least that I didn't act in the moment and send my evil little ranty email...
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“Why do you sit there looking like an envelope without any address on it?”