Confusing Date Choices
So i've been dating James for some weeks now, and things are going well. He seems to enjoy my company, and i really enjoy his too. We've made out a couple times in his room when he's alone at home. (Which, fortunately for us, is relatively often.) And i'm running out of ideas of how to keep it going.
Anyone who's been following my little story knows that i'm new to the whole dating scene. And my main problem right now is i don't know where to typically go FOR a date. We've gone to movies, restaurants, and simple walks in local state parks. All of which were very fun and was filled with little flirts and gestures of affection.
Any tips or ideas on where to go next?
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a night in
with a homemade meal curling up with a movie can't go wrong there
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Hmmm...
Never considered that...thanks. Any suggestions on what type of food? I kinda doubt walking in with a bag of Taco Bell and a few rented movies will make a very romantic evening.
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
well
it should be something you both love but you have to be able to cook it & any movie will do, its usually just being with him that will make it special
its also a good time if its cold to have a blanket and cuddle into him learned off being the receiving end of it
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Liiiike....
He's a HUGE chocaholic (i seriously have no idea how he stays so thin) so...maybe some of my home-made ice-cream?
I'm thinking we'll just go rent some movies together. See what he likes and i can show what i like.
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
sounds good
But 2 questions this will help me
What type of movie are you planning to get?
And is he masculine or feminine?
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Deffinentaly...
He's feminine, for sure. And i'm thinking of like, a romantic comedy. So it'll have those cute moments, but still be a little funny at times so it won't feel all tense and forced.
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
perfect
Best movie choice & if he tries to cuddle into you like hes trying to get snug let him actually maybe put a arm around him or cuddle back
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Deffinentaly...
He's feminine, for sure. And i'm thinking of like, a romantic comedy. So it'll have those cute moments, but still be a little funny at times so it won't feel all tense and forced.
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
one more question
when will this date be?
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
drive ins....
i know, i know, a drive in is still a movie, but its differnt then a theater, like alot nicer, more so on clear nights.
"A loving man and woman in a committed relationship can marry. Dogs, no matter what their relationship, are not allowed to marry. How should society treat gays and lesbians in committed relationships? As dogs or as humans?"
And...
...if I recall correctly... you're snuggled in back in the truck bed... with... shall his name be mentioned?
Memories!
Thanks
I would like to thank you all for the support and tips. We're going to rent some movies and cuddle up for the entire evening and late into the night, eating homemade ice-cream (chocolate of course). The truck-bed idea will DEFFINATELY be on the back of my mind and up my sleeve in the future though. Thanks again!
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
P.S.
It's all going down this saturday.
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An optimist sees the glass half full, and a pessimist sees the glass half empty. But a realist however, realizes that sooner or later he's going to eventually have to clean the glass.
good
ps just a best tip dont get tense or think every possibility through it occupies your mind when you need it somewhere else
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Hmm...
I think Trick is a cute gay romantic comedy, although... fair warning, the plot is about two guys who are trying to hook-up, but keep getting shut down wherever they go. Sweet as hell, though. One of my faves...
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