If you are not getting confirmation e-mails from Oasis to complete your membership, don't hesitate to e-mail jeff at oasismag dot com. Be sure to include your username.
Recent articles
Recent journal entries
Active forum topics
- The Curse of Reparative Therapy
- First Book: 'Keeping You A Secret' By Julie Anne Peters
- A Kids Reaction To A Gay Couple
- The Importance Of Giving Feedback
- Can you envisage an any more pointless existence?
- Advice?
- Will Portman - Son of Ohio's Senator Portman: His Column on Coming Out
- Can you imagine the vitriol unleashed by Republicans…
- coming out
- Islam and Homosexuality
Who's online
There are currently 0 users and 9 guests online.
Comments
A very interesting poll...
...coming from one (currently) professing little interest in sex. :)
However, it does have its scientific research value!
Well yes,
but top and bottom isn't exclusively sexual. It also exists romantically, though it is based on the sexual difinitions.
Well...
Another confirmation that one is never too old to learn something new!
Now... would someone remind me what I just learned... and, quite inexplicably, seemingly to have now forgotten?
NB: ☺☺ :) :)
Stereotypically,
bottoms have a more feminine role in a relationship, while tops have a more masculine role.
And... therein lies the problem!
Why can't sex be an expression of mutual love and affection without one feeling obliged to appear one or the other: hyper-female or hyper-male?
true, people shouldn't fit
true, people shouldn't fit heteronormative terms into homosexual relationships
i don't "feel obligated" to be either though
i just like getting fucked
and occasionally fucking someone
I agree
I agree me & AJ are both very masculine and although be do fight for dominence in bed some times but i also think who seduces the other person is usually on top so maybe its just the seducer
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
Because
We are all a product of society, it's what we've been brainwashed into thinking. In fact, we dont even really think about the things we say or do because they've become normal to us. :P
I personally dont really like the whole "you're the guy/girl in this relationship" kinda thing. I personally like playing both roles with someone who also does the same. I do feel obligated to stick with one role, and it's annoying.
I think more couples should experiment with your idea on mutual love and affection without feeling obligated to take on a role and stick with it. And also having one role in a relationship, sexual or not, can get a little boring after awhile :P.
"So can you tell me what's left when everything you care for carries on, when broken dreams are built to make you strong. When the memories of yesterday fall through these broken dreams are built to help you through." ~Authority Zero
Both
-
That's redick!
I say bottom
because of the way I emotionally (and sometimes sexually*) think of boys.
*Though I have no desire for sex, I do have sexual thoughts and fantasies that I would not think twice about denying in real life.
I don't get it.
I don't get it.
Mostly sex.
Tops penetrate bottoms. Versatiles switch between top and bottom.
Does being a well-seasoned "versatile"...
...warrant praise... or, maybe, a prize?
Hmm,
definately both.
Try...
definitely.
My apology... restraints on my alter ego snapped! :)
Probs
both, although probs too more bottom than top, but I dunno.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt5ghXdq6Z0&safe_search=on
Both
It depends on how it goes, really. Most of the time I start on top, but it usually switches around a couple times during.
you should add forever alone
you should add forever alone as a poll option tho LOL
FAP
Forever
Alone
Party
"So can you tell me what's left when everything you care for carries on, when broken dreams are built to make you strong. When the memories of yesterday fall through these broken dreams are built to help you through." ~Authority Zero
Top
I Prefer top but since both me and AJ Prefer top it does usually lead to fighting for dominence but i will settle for bottom but like lying evenly
i only drink irn bru and the occassional blood of my enemies
i'm a top in bed, but a
i'm a top in bed, but a bottom in romance...that's clear right???...lol!
~"to live a day alone, only THAT would be torture! An hour without you, only THAT would be death!" ~gomez and morticia addams
~"look at him! i would kill for him! i would die for him! either way what bliss!"~gomez addams