Is also you being an asshole.

I have never hated you. I pity you because it does seem you're in need of serious help.

Frankly, you know, I get bullied at home from my family. And for the longest time, I allowed myself to have quite the most self-depriciating and attention seeking attitude ever, because I was never getting enough good attention at home. I never knew any different.

But then there came a time when I started to grow up, and was told honestly by the boy I love that I was hurting him, driving him mad with my attitude. And then he left, and broke my heart. Started dating my best friend, who was the first girl I ever fell in love with. She lied to me. Went around and stole him right from under me, knowing that I'd be hurt by it.

My heart was shattered. It was the most horrible emotional trauma I had ever had to go through. Not only was I not taken care of at home- No, the first people to ever really care about me and love me had left, hated me, and were together. I had to be in the same room, watching them kiss passionately. She was in him; in his mouth, his arms, his heart. My place. She was in my place.

I threw up constantly and cut my body. I didn't eat. I drank alchohol almost every night to help me sleep. I had hurt so bad. Why? I thought. Why would anyone ever hurt someone that badly?

And then I took a long time to repair my heart and my body, and it came to me in realization that you have to be loving to be loved. You have to accept people for their mistakes and, if they hate you, that's just fine. You prove them wrong. You be kind to people who are mean and you most certainly count your blessings. Count your blessings every day.

That's why I get so bitchy. It's not hard to be happy, if you just allow yourself to be.

One day, my baby came back to me. And he left again, because of the pain I had caused him. But he came back yet again. He's still.... not the same, because of what I did to him. How I treated him.
It makes me sad.

But every day he improves and trusts me more. I feel like he's more in love with me than he ever was. Yes, we fight a little... and I'm still growing and learning to maintain my attitude. He's still maturing. But there's good in the world, even in the people who hurt you. He and my best friend hurt me more than anyone, but... To forgive is to love. And well... Everyone has a story. A reason they act the way they are. It's very rare that assholes act that way on their own accord... So just remember to think of what may have happened to them. Everyone's been hurt in some way.

Everyone.

That's why you should always be kind to those who are rude to you. I know I'm terrible at following such things myself on the internet, but in real life, I try to be the most kind thing I can. I try.

I feel like your happiness would be best found by being passionately strong. Passionately kind. You appreciate life more and people appreciate you more if you're unjustly kind to people. There's absolutely so much to love in this world. I mean there's 7 billion people... and everyone in it is a little mix of good and evil. Maybe the people who have been mean to you, have also been bullied at home like I have. Or they've been rejected their whole lives too. Frankly, just try asking them why they're like that...

Maybe you'll have been the first one to ask, you know?
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That's redick!