Hmmm, things are looking a bit up...

swimmerguy's picture

Well, I'm quite 99% sure now that the cute Asian kid in English is into me...
Evidence, well, the same original things, first, I have lunch in East Campus, and I've never seen him there, but then all of a sudden, a few weeks ago, he picks me out, and has a quick awkward conversation with me, about nothing really except seeing me at my soccer practice the previous day, and I haven't seen him in East Campus for lunch since, I assume he eats at Main Campus... Suspicious...
He's waved at me a few times in the hall, which, might be friendly, but keep in mind before this first awkward conversation, I've never talked to this kid, only seen him maybe in the single digits in the hall last year.
Now, today, it was revealed quite clearly that he's been stalking my fb... He knew that my picture that I just changed today used to be a picture of the virgin Mary saying "Abstinence: Not 100% effective"... Now, all my info is public, so he could likely see everything, including my interested in: men, thing, so yeah...
And we were in this group in English, and he was looking at me, and addressing sentences to me, and he wrote on the back of a piece of paper Chad is stupid, which is interesting :P
Especially considering, one of the other guys in the group is a guy who has both known him for a while, and sits next to him in English every day, while I'm a ways away, and he addressed it to me...

Hmmmmm... Very suspicious I say...
I friended who I thought was him on fb, but he hasn't responded in however long, so it might not be, I dunno, he has one of those common Asian last names, I'll say it's either Lee, Kim, or Park.
(It's interesting, you can look in the highest orchestra group we have, a 16 member chamber orchestra, and of those, 2 have the last name Park, 2 have the last name Lee, 4 have the last name Kim, then there's a Xia, and a Jeon, which are both also kinda Asian... Our school is so Asian)
And he has no picture. I rationalize not having a picture of me for my picture, because my first name is quite uncommon, and my last name is extremely uncommon, and there's only 1 other guy on fb who shares the name, and that really surprised me there was even 1...
Come to think of it, I just friended my only other namesake :P we'll see what he says :P

So anyway, I digress, since many people on fb share his name I can't be sure I friended him, so I'll tell him to friend me :P

So, anyway, very, veeeerrryyyy interesting, I say, I might have to check this out, as he appears to be rather cool unlike so far the 2 other guys I've ever met who are gay who appear quite... Not cool people who just want sex...
And I'm sure he'll know if he doesn't already when, theoretically, I get my nails painted rainbow this weekend at Shelby's house :P
Shelby, we need to get a time and date and shit for this weekend.

Anyway, I'm feeling a bit better emotionally, that's good.
My friend blames my feeling like shit on my drinking... I'm not so sure...

Anyway, I was surprised to find this funny, but I actually did laugh during it:

Fuckin awesome, love the last part.

And something that's funny in a few places :P :

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elph's picture

A lot of hope...

...and much circumstantial evidence!

Isn't knowing far better than uncertainty?

Take the challenge (I acknowledge it's not easy!)...

Get off your butt and... today... find your Asian Adonis alone... and ask him forthrightly, "Can we be friends?"

You're on your own from there... but you will have achieved something to build on!

In case you can't tell... I'll be cheering for you! :)

Uncertain's picture

There are way too many

There are way too many people out there who just want sex. He sounds like he's definitely a keeper if things work out.

I wish you luck!

elph's picture

So true...

That first sentence!

It is truly a challenge to keep lust and affection separately compartmentalized!

This issue deserves an essay: I'm too far removed (age!) to make a meaningful contribution, but I'd love to read what the two of you have to say!

Uncertain's picture

And just for clarification...

There is nothing wrong with just wanting sex. All I'm saying is if you're into something more it's always a bit harder to find.

elph's picture

Yep...

But I'm probably a bit out-of-date: If the sex is mutually participatory, I want my partner to be as "into it" as I am!

If not... there's much to commend being self-sufficient :)

jeff's picture

Yeah...

If they don't act into it, I won't tip as much.

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

jeff's picture

Err...

Never tried compartmentalizing them... what's the point?

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"You can judge the whole world on the sparkle that you think it lacks" - Dawes, When My Time Comes (http://youtu.be/Z0FrcTX6hWI)

elph's picture

In light of the preface...

...I concede that no answer would satisfy.

Dracofangxxx's picture

dude you're the busy one

you and Katy both >:|
so you're the one that's gotta give me a date, I'm free errday except Thursday cause I'm hangin' with my nerd friends after school :P
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That's redick!

swimmerguy's picture

Friday?

Dracofangxxx's picture

Sounds good :P I'll ask the Katy :P

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That's redick!

elph's picture

Begging...

Please! A pic (both hands, palm down) of the finished art project?

Toes, too?