
I am having awful luck getting a job. I've been trying since the beginning of summer. No business ever contacts me after I give them my application. Today I turned in applications to 4 different places. One of them might hire me, two of them aren't hiring for the position I want, and the last one, which was hiring for all positions and was my best bet for a job, only hires people over 18. Why? Because employees have to use box cutters. WHAT? What is this nonsense? Do they think I'm gonna shank a customer? Or cut myself opening a box and sue the company? For fuck's sake, I'm not a child and I think I can handle using a god damn box cutter.
I was fuming when I left the place. Let's see...after today, I've applied to 8 or 9 places. Maybe even 10. I tried to stay away from fast food. I've only applied to the cleaner fast food places. But I don't think I have a choice anymore. I've heard awful stories from people who have worked in the greasiest fast food joints in town, and it makes me wanna vomit. So, does anybody here work in a fast food restaurant? Please tell me it's not as bad as everyone says it is.
I've been considering dropping German after this year. Not because I'm a quitter, but because I just can't follow anything anymore and it's not fun anymore. Why would you combine the German IV class with the AP German class? The AP kids can speak German like pros, but us German IV kids haven't learned a lot of verbs and adjectives. It isn't really fair that the teacher expects us to be at the same level as the AP students. So I dunno.
I really really miss talking to my counselor. I have so much I want to talk about with her. I feel weird right now. A lot of weird things are happening. I mean, I'm so much more confident with myself. I laugh more, I smile more, I can talk to people I don't know without getting nervous. My mood swings aren't nearly as extreme as they once were. I'm comfortable with myself, who I am. I like the direction I'm heading.
But...
But what? What do I have to complain about? Nothing, really. I feel so strange. I can't even put a word to it. I mean, I've been put in some situations lately with certain people that have been slaps in the face, but...I dunno. I just don't know.
My best friend whom I had a crush on has started speaking to me again. She's been wonderfully nice, and very affectionate. I'm still cautious though. The great thing is that I know I won't invest all of my time and energy in our friendship like I did last time. I'm not attached in an unhealthy way anymore, and I think she knows this. I can support her without being clingy, and I can listen to her talk about guys without getting jealous. So it's great. I love the sweet side of her. But, if she starts to become a cranky irritable bitch again, I am not afraid of speaking up, unlike last time. This time is different. I will let her know if she starts to be a bitch again. This will be her final chance. If things end up like they did last time, I'm done. I can't put myself through it all again.
Wow. I've really changed since the beginning of last year. I've never been so independent and confident before. It feels fucking amazing.
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And I've heard bad things about dem' thurr' greasy joints, my sister worked at a really nasty Subway, but I mean, it's a job, you're going to hate it anyways.
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My secret to success? Well,
My secret to success? Well, if you're referring to my confidence and better mood, then that's a looong explanation.
Subway was nasty? Huh. I thought Subway was one of the nicer fast food places. And I actually think I might enjoy being put to work. It'll make me feel like I'm accomplishing something outside of school. And money. I NEED MONEY.
I've never worked fast food,
I've never worked fast food, but I've babysat and changed more than a few diapers (yuck!). I used to be a bagger at a grocery store which wasn't too bad, got lots of tips. Fast food is not the best option but it's a job, and sadly you'll probably have lots of competition for a position.
Good luck and don't give up!
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Ah yes, I've babysat a few
Ah yes, I've babysat a few times. But I hated it. A lot. Everyone says that bagging at a grocery store is a pretty nice job. It's like the career of choice for teens. Unfortunately, everyone in town has taken that job. I can be a bagger at the place my mom works, but they hire A LOT of people and I probably wouldn't get any hours.
So yeah. Greasy grills, here I come!
So long as the people around
So long as the people around you are cool, almost any job is tolerable, 'cause then at least you can bitch about how your job sucks together.
A lot of the time when I knew I had an appointment with my guidance counselor I'd think lots of things that merited discussion, and it'd kill me that I had to wait however many days to speak to her, but when I actually got to talk to her, there'd be times where my head would blank because I was so happy that someone was actually listening to me, the happy overrode the things that really needed talking about. (That was a fucking long sentence.)
It's great to look back a year or so, to certain milestones, and see how you've grown. Immensely satisfying. And that's the beauty of growing up, even though then you have to deal with things like responsibility.
Ah, that's another thing I
Ah, that's another thing I worry about. My co-workers. If I have to work with any douchey teenagers from my school, I will cry.
The happiness thing happened to me a lot when I talked to my counselor every other week. This is why when she comes back, I'll probably only see her once a month. I don't need to talk to her as often because I'm so much happier now.
Eh...
I prefer jobs that pay me enough money that it feels wrong to complain about it, although I probably will anyway, heh.
Papering your resume really doesn't help, I don't think. I get the majority of my jobs through personal contacts, and everyone I know does as well. That is true at every level of the job market, so instead of filling out applications where people aren't hiring (where you are just playing the lottery, as the person who will get hired is the person who applies right after an opening occurs), you should instead see where your friends and family have jobs, and get them to advocate for you, get the word out, say they have someone for a job as soon as one opens up. I have a lot of unemployed friends who are writers, yet I do writing contracts at night after my full-time job, because I get referrals through friends and previous co-workers/bosses. I even charge a lot more than someone unemployed. It doesn't matter. I have the contact, and it is my job to lose at that point. My last contract even said 'This seems a bit high (for an hourly rate), is that negotiable?' I said 'No, not really...' and they said OK. Nearly every job I get is through personal connections. Most of the time AFTER I'm pretty much hired, that's when they ask for my resume, just to put in my file. For many of my jobs, I never gave them a resume.
Applications are a dead end, UNLESS the place says they are hiring in that morning's paper of there's a sign in their window. If the sign looks weathered, like they are always putting out feelers for new hires, skip it. There's a reason people leave there at such a steady rate.
The other method is to pick a place you really like and would want to work, and instead of just filling out an application and leaving it with some other drone, ask to talk to the manager, and instead of filling things out, just introduce yourself and say why you are interested in working there, and how much you like the place. You're basically complimenting the guy possible responsible for the vibe and why you like it, then give him your contact information and say you really hope you'll hear from him when something opens up and, until then, you'll just remain a happy customer. Keep it short and, if possible, like if it's a coffee place, get in line and buy something. You're also better at a Mom and Pop than a chain version, since they are directly responsible for hiring, whereas a Starbucks may have to keep the staff all multiculturaled, etc.
I think that, over 14 random applications, will get you much further. There is nothing you're putting on a form application that makes you stand out more than anyone else. They will always take it, they will always tell you you'll hear from them if something opens up, etc., but that's usually the end of the line.
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I have a couple of friends
I have a couple of friends who have recommended places, and I've put in applications to these places, but I never hear anything from them. Plus, most of my friends are looking for jobs just like me. No one in my immediate family has a job in any place that I could work. Basically, I'm on my own. I have no connections to certain places through friends or family.
All the places I really want to work don't hire 16-year-olds, or they never contact me after I turn in my application. I did apply at Best Buy, and they're hiring 16 year olds. So maybe I'll start work there. I dunno.
I'm really happy and proud of you, Jenjens :)
I'm glad everything personally is working out and you feel great :)
Um, but sorry about the jobs. I have no idea about that yet! D': So maybe you'll be helping ME when I try to get jobs in a couple months XP
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I don't think you'll have a problem with getting a job. You live really close to a gigantic city, and I think there's more job opportunities where you live. You'll probably get a job before I do. That's how much this town sucks.