Hmmm thoughts.

DarkestValley's picture

So heres the goss guys,
Like so my bestfriend idk what's happening. We both go to clubs and get plastered as fuck and we're both like one day when we are drunk we will hook up. Like it's a fact I know it'll happen. Idk i feel bad, i mean he was with one of my closest friends but she full fucked him around, and i was with his best mate but yeah ahha he kinda fucked me around. But idk, like last night we spooned yeah? And idk wtf is happening. like what does it mean? then he said i rekon if we hooked up at schoolies (instead of him hooking up with alicia and me with alan), we'd still be together.
but what does this mean? WHEN we 'hook-up' that means we'll go out? see i dont know :( And he still sees alicia, but i dont think he likes her anymore although maybe he does idk. Man I wish i could read peoples minds.... And more importantly if we do hook up how friendship will be fucked. And i dont know if i can live with that, I mean I cannot even contemplate loosing his friendship.

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PT's picture

Well, I had the same problem

Well, I had the same problem with my best friend. I don't think I would do it, just to save the friendship. If you already think it would be weird afterwards and you haven't taken action, then I would just be blunt and say don't do it.

DarkestValley's picture

Aw thanks for the advice

Aw thanks for the advice man! but unforts i just hooked up with him last night, awkward! ha nah it was alright but i hope the friendship doesnt plunder but i guess we'll have to see the consequences that follow i suppose

jeff's picture

Err...

If you're hooking up drunk after clubbing, I wouldn't assume it means there is anything more going on as far as the relationship. Just going from friends to friends with benefits, unless you sense he's acting differently toward and around you now.

In the gay world, sex is often the start of a friendship, not the destruction of one. If you sleep with someone you were friends with for a while, though, it could be awkward for a while. The main thing is to establish what it means, and if you're comfortable with that.

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"Why be given a body if you have to keep it locked up in a case like a rare, rare fiddle?" - Katherine Mansfield

DarkestValley's picture

Ah that's a good point.

Ah that's a good point. Alwell whatever happens, happens :)
Least it's not awkward I guess ha ha :) Really sex is the start of a friendship? Wow haha thats so different, in straight ville it almost ALWAYS means the end of one, i guess because idk why that is haha. Perhaps because yhe girl always seems to look far to much into things and the guy will sometimes know this but just use her to do the ol' rooto and booto and then the girl thinking that theyre gonna be together forever will be heart-brokennn.

jeff's picture

Exactly...

Gay guys get around this drama by removing the woman from the equation. ;-)

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"Why be given a body if you have to keep it locked up in a case like a rare, rare fiddle?" - Katherine Mansfield

DarkestValley's picture

Hahaha thats so true!!!!

Hahaha thats so true!!!!