'You can do better'
I am so SICK of that god damn line! Because it's not true well MOSTLY it's not true, it could be true in some cases. But everyone says to everyone, in hope of comforting or something when they are dumped. But it's a complete lie.
Sometimes you CANT do better, lookswise anyways personality wise maybe but idk. Sometimes what you have is so perfect, you can't do can't do any better and sometimes they are better than you.
& Also why the hell is it that some peoples lives are so perfect. Why is it they are goodlooking AND rich AND happy, like Fuck.
I dont care, well actually I care alot that kids are starving from Cambodia and I should be thankfull for what I have and it's selfish in the sense that I WANT MORE. I just want to be happy. I just want to be WANTED. I just want to go back to when everything was good.
Man I am a mass sook, but i'm not usually like this. I dont usually whinge at every single thing under the God given Sun I usually make people laugh, it's a hobby.
Anyway bye and sorry again for the fuck long post. I hope you all are well.
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Oh dear, you think this is a
Oh dear, you think this is a long post?
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Anyway, sorry about what you're dealing with. :[ I don't really know what being dumped like... So I can't relate completely. But I -do- know what rejection is like. (Oh boy do I know.) And I just want to remind you that it's not gonna feel this way forever. At first it seems like the world is crumbling and "how could this happen?" and "but we're so perfect" and all of that, but time works wonders and the world is full of beautiful people that are terribly easy to fall for and have another chance with. And then it'll be okay that it's not the same because it'll be different and new and exciting, so just hang in there.
And it's okay to be unhappy and need to vent sometimes. That's what this site is for. *hugs*
Awww :) Thanks so much
Awww :) Thanks so much :)
You guys are so nice :P
How are you anyways?
Ah,
"...why the hell is it that some peoples lives are so perfect. Why is it they are goodlooking AND rich AND happy, like Fuck."
The way it's been and the way it will always be is that someone will be better off than you and someone will be worse off than you. Imagine the people who look at you as one of the perfectly happy people. Surely we all want more in our lives, humans are selfish creatures by nature.
And if you do want to help the people in need such as the children in Cambodia. You can give to a number of charities and missionary organizations (preferably secular charities).
Re: Rich Goodlooking People
Also, they have the money for good dental and health care, as well as plastic surgery?
Sometimes I'm unhappy and get into moods where I'm pissed off over this or that, but my brain for whatever reason always snaps back and says, "Things could be so much worse. Look at what you've got! Look at how bad things were then and look at them now. Stop complaining, you've got so much, and if you'd try a little harder, life could be so much better"
In the end, no matter how much damn complaining I do in my head, everything's up to me. It's up to me to make things better and to get out of the situation that is causing me grief/frustration/pain. I feel better when I snap back and realize this.
"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age
well
nobody is perfect. with perfection there must be flaw. Even if someone's life seems perfect chances are that they're miserable
may the crests of light,love,hope,courage,and kindness shine brightly on a new day.
Cliche. Inner beauty.
Cliche. Inner beauty.