Brandy

Just Dave's picture

But Know what I've discovered? I cannot stand people who are spoiled. Not "mommy buys me everything I ever want" spoiled. The more subtle kind. Like when people are really picky eaters just because they never tried different types of food. Or when people make faces at a room that is not perfectly clean, or get offended over the drop of a pin.

I guess spoiled is not the word I'm looking for. It's more like sheltered. I realize how ridiculous it is too; it's probably not their fault. They've probably been raised in a very clean household with parents who never pushed them to do anything they didn't want to. But still. Every time someone makes a face at me for eating cream of mushroom soup, I kind of just want to pour the hot soup into their lap and tell them to suck it.

It only gets worse when they cry. Usually, I'm a pretty supportive person if a friend is at the point where they are crying. I tell jokes and tell them it'll get better, promise revenge, the whole nine yards. But I've realized something; it really depends on what they are crying about.

You see, I find it really hard to sympathize with somebody whose had it easier than I have. For example:

A semi-friend of mine recently told me a story from middle school. We'd often talked about how much we hated middle school, but I never really asked why. Then, in tears, she "confides" that she once had a best friend who (shockingly) betrayed her and started hanging out with an enemy of hers. This happened in middle school, and she didn't have a best friend again "for like three months" after that.

After she finished her harrowing tale, I was literally speechless. All I could think was, "Uh... that's it?" Of course I didn't say that, but my reaction was insincere at best.

Ugh. I know this is hypocritical. Probably 90% of the members on this site could read my journal entries and say the same thing to me, that my problems aren't bad.

But at least in day-to-day life, I don't pretend to be a victim. My life hasn't been easy, but I still have an amazing life. Most people do. I just hate people who forget that.

Also, when girls wear bump-its. That shit is ugly.

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elph's picture

This needed saying...

And... you've done it!

Agree. And thank you.

btw... mushroom soup is great (although it's often a bit rich). Onion soup :)

ShowMeLove's picture

I understand and agree except...

I'm a picky eater, but, for me at least, it's not because I've "never tried different types of food", but because I am really sensitive to textures and tastes. I would honestly throw up if I ever had to eat Turkey or fried onions or most "normal" foods. I just... can't.

I've spent the majority of my life being looked at weird because of my eating habits but I really can't control what my body gags at.

"Sometimes it takes another to show us the truths we hide from ourselves."
-Leliana, Dragon Age

jeff's picture

Hmm...

I am not a tragedy queen. After 9/11, when all the planes were grounded, I immediately thought to call the most exclusive restaurant in wine country and got a table for that weekend! I figured, some of the people with reservations had to be flying here before the weekend... that story annoys so many people. ;-)

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"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." - Kurt Cobain

radiosilence95's picture

I 100% agree with you dude.

I 100% agree with you dude. I use to be that kind of person, always whining about how unfair life is, thinking everyone was against me and stuff. Then I put on my big girl panties and grew up.

I'm never going to do the whole "poor me" bullshit again.

godforbidlaura's picture

Sometimes anything that

Sometimes anything that anyone is does pisses me off to no end. Sometimes I have unending patience for other peoples viewpoints and actions. NEVER am I okay with people that don't understand that the way they think things should be is not the way things are and no matter how much patience I have people who won't try foods when someone says "here just try this" really bother the shit out of me.
There is a principle which is a bar to all information which is proof against all arguments and which cannot fail to keep a man in everlasting ignorance- that principle is contempt prior to investigation- Herbert Spencer

Quietwarrior's picture

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Oh my brother is such a picky eater, it is so annoying, he hates like everything. Yes i agree on those people who cry over everything when really it is not important and all they want it sympathy from others. I do dance and when girls come out of one of the exams and have done one step wrong or something, they suddenly start the waterworks, just for attention, it is so see through.