So. (This post is probably going to be vulgar, not going to lie.)

Riku's picture

My mom is a [insert the worst insult you can possibly think of here] and there need to be laws against people like her. People have gone to jail for less.

So my sister called her yesterday morning and asked her why she couldn't stay. My mom gave her some bullshit excuse about school but my sister didn't buy it. "But I can go to school up here!" she screamed into the phone. She was crying. :/

I'm assuming my mom then said something to the effect of "YOU'RE STAYING WITH ME AND THAT'S FINAL." (because that's what she always says) before HANGING UP on her 12 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER.

I have never wanted to break something over someone's head so much. Hang up on me? FINE. What the fuck ever. BUT YOU DO NOT HANG UP ON MY SISTER YOU WORTHLESS BITCH.

I can't stand her. I can't stand how mindlessly selfish she is. I can't stand all of the damage she's done. I wish she'd just LEAVE US ALONE.

She's hurt us so much, my sister has a really low self-worth and I hate it. She feels guilty for everything whether it's her fault or not and it's because my mom and grandparents are terrible to her. My grandfather has kicked her before. KICKED her. You do NOT KICK a child. I mean, I have issues with hitting children at all... But KICKING THEM? It makes me sick.

I'm sick of waiting for the courts to get some sense. I'm sick of my mom and I'm sick of my grandparents and I'm REALLY sick of people assuming that they can't be as bad as I make them out to be because they're family.

I don't talk to my mom anymore, she's disgusting. She makes me want to throw up. I never wanted to hate her but you know what? She's done it.

Also don't you dare say "but she's still your mom." to me. That is the best way to piss my off instantly, to imply that because she lent me her womb for 9 months she is deserving of forgiveness. Nevermind that all of the problems I have would not be problems if it weren't for her. Nevermind that all of these problems would pretty much vanish on her word. Nevermind that she wants money from my dad so badly that she doesn't care if it puts me on the street. Nevermind that she separated me from my sister who I am incredibly close to and blames me for not wanting to live where we would both be miserable. Nevermind that she intentionally calls me by the wrong name and pronouns when she's upset at me which is triggering enough to cause me to hurt myself. NEVERMIND ALL OF THAT. SHE MUST BE A GOOD PERSON BECAUSE SHE'S MY MOM.

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centerfielder08's picture

If she's a good mom than I'm

If she's a good mom than I'm a caveman.

Ew this post made me so angry with her and I don't know her.

I wish I could say more but I don't know what to offer up.

I'm always here for you, Riku, you know that. *HUGS*. I'm always here for ya, man.

And all that stuff...its legitimate that you are triggered by the (s)hit she's throwing at you.
I'm here for ya, man, and that's not gonna change.

Super Duck's picture

I have issues with my mom

I have issues with my mom too, and I know how you feel when people say, "OH BUT SHE'S YOUR MOM!!!!!1" Makes me sooooo mad. >:(

Anyway, I'm sorry about your mom. And your grandfather KICKED your sister? WTF? That is awful!

kamkam's picture

your mom sounds like a total

your mom sounds like a total bitch. and that phrase"but she's your mom" makes me so mad if she's your mom she sure doesn't act like it. and your grandfather kicking your sister WTF there's a little thing called child abuse.can't people go to jail for that well he should go for life. I don't care if he's old. kicking a child is just inhumane. I feel very sorry for what you're going through.

The Bookworm's picture

The problem with our court

The problem with our court system that allows people such as your mother to exist is that you need third-party first-hand witness to get anything done in an expedient manner. The system drastically favors adults even in cases where a minor is by definition the victim. It's disgusting.
And I'm so sorry you have to live with someone like that, I can't even express. You just managed to completely piss me off at the country (okay, not difficult) and someone I don't know (pretty difficult)....growl.....
Again, I'm sorry, I wish there was something I could do. *hugs*

funnyflyby's picture

Okay, I know I'm late on this, but...

if you switch 'mom' and 'dad' in this journal that's pretty much my situation. I actually called 911 on my dad when I was 11 and was completely ignored because 'he's your dad'. And my dad got it from my grandmother. My one of my earliest memories is my grandmother dumping a full metal bucket of sand over my 3 year old brother's head. And then laughing at my brother's crying.
Stupid court. SERIOUSLY, IT MEANS SOMETHING WHEN A KID CALLS 911!
Wow.woW

kamkam's picture

WTF

a three year old really that is just cruel that woman should be locked up for life. and wat makes it worse that nobody bothers to help. wat has this world come to