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11 November, 2010 - 3:59am — Bi the Book

k so i have two questions for you guys.

1. for the guys and girls who are/have dating/dated, what age did you start dating? I am 15 and havent had a bf/gf yet. im one of many who haven't dated yet! its not that i don't want to take, but there is no one that i like. i joke that i might end up living alone, but sometimes i think its true. i might end up alone. i just dont seem to like anyone lately; boy or girl

and, realted tp ^

2. is it odd for a teenager not to have crushes on people? like i have had light crushes like a few months ago but i really don't have crushes on people anymore. not since like 8th grade. is this weird? answers are really appreciated!

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11 November, 2010 - 4:05am — Dracofangxxx
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12

First serious relationship at twelve, lasted until late thirteen. Started up again, same guy, this summer. I'm fourteen, soon to be fifteen.

But then again, I don't do things completely normal for what twelve-fifteen year olds SHOULD be doing in relationships... Heh.

And no, it's not weird. You're perfectly fine.
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You are beautiful, in every single way <3

11 November, 2010 - 4:36am — MacAvity
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I'm seventeen, going on

I'm seventeen, going on eighteen, and have never had a dating relationship. I went to a school dance with a guy...twice...the second time wasn't a date...but I'm not entirely sure about the first time. I don't know how he felt about me; I certainly wasn't romantically interested in him at all.

As to the crushes, maybe it's not usual to go quite that long between major crushes, but I don't think it's abnormal in any way. My friend (who used to be completely boy-crazy and still swoons over fictional men) claims that she hasn't had a crush on a real boy since she got her latest cat almost two years ago - now she lavishes all her snuggles and emotional energy on her pet, and fantasizes about her favorite television characters. And if as you say you have had 'light crushes' more recently, that makes your condition even less odd.

11 November, 2010 - 5:38am — 625539
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My first relationship

My first relationship started when I was fourteen, with a girl... Needless to say I wasn't very into it but she thought she was in love.

With a boy my first "real relationship" was this summer, so I was seventeen. I've yet to be in a relationship that lasts and isn't based on sex.

I didn't start getting crushes on people my own gender until I was sixteen... Nothing abnormal in that.

nothing is permitted. everything is allowed.

11 November, 2010 - 5:58am — Bi the Book
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thank you guys for your

thank you guys for your answers!!!!

11 November, 2010 - 9:46am — epicfailure
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My first relationship was

My first relationship was when I was 13. Then I had 3 more, all with guys of cause. Don't have any luck with the ladies because I haven't came out yet.
Sometimes I feel the same way. I guess not.

* Like what Shaggy said "it wasn't me"*

11 November, 2010 - 3:08pm — Super Duck
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Don't worry, I'm sixteen and

Don't worry, I'm sixteen and have never been on anything even remotely close to a date. :P Definitely no girlfriend either.

As for the liking people thing, I'd say that's pretty normal. I've gone a couple months without liking anyone, but never over a year. Still, I'd say it's normal and probably a lot less frustrating than having 3485738 crushes all the time.

12 November, 2010 - 12:31am — the ghost
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I was 23 when I had my first

I was 23 when I had my first proper relationship. It lasted 5 months. I'm currently in my second relationship, aged 25, been in it for 5 months exactly, and am very happy. I never had heaps of crushes, when they did come though they were huge and intense however rare. Not to be a patronising A*sehole, but you got plenty of time and I assure you however late or early you start it all evens out.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent-Eleanor Roosevelt

12 November, 2010 - 3:18am — Bi the Book
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Thanks so much guys! All of

Thanks so much guys! All of you! this really helps! :-)