So there's this girl...
And I'm crazy about her. She's so beautiful and outgoing. She's into this really weird indie music and there's something... like childish about her but in a good way... I don't know haha.. it's weird.
I found out she was bi a while ago and I was so happy! But every time she comes around I just shut down. I'm too scared to talk to her and I don't know how to flirt! When I know someone and if I'm comfortable with them I can flirt like mess but I don't know her that well so I feel awkward around her. Can anyone help me??? How do you flirt with a girl you barely know??
I don't know.. she just makes me happy. I tell myself every morning I won't like her when I see her but then she comes into geometry and I just smile. So much for that. I've got to get her somehow..
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Ask her if she likes
Ask her if she likes chocolate chips or chocolate chunks to start a conversation. (xD)
Beyond that, I suck at flirting.
WARNING: the above advice is almost certainly not the best. It is merely a joke of sorts from my youth group - although I feel like it might actually work... hmmm..
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If you only see her in
If you only see her in geometry class (and if she understands the math) you could ask her for help on a problem or something.
hmm...then you could move to casual conversations- like bring up a movie you've just seen or want to see. Hey, she might even want to see the same movie and be like "ohh, we should go see that!"
If you don't like math then you could talk about how lame geometry is, but hint at it's only tolerable cuz she's in there..
.. you could comment on her wardrobe if you like something she's wearing- not like in a creepy way.. lol.. but only say things you mean! sincerity is best.
ooh, and don't gossip :)
thanks :)
She's actually in three out of four of my classes.. but i like the "talk about how lame geometry is but hint its only tolerable cuz of her" idea. I'll have to try it out!
<3 I think we all sorta know
<3
I think we all sorta know how you feel, babe X3 Just ease into it! :D
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You're twisted and perverted. I like that in a person.
I can't say
I really know what the "liking girls" part of this is like...
Hai-kus are ea-sy
But some-times they don't make sense
Re-fridge-er-a-tor
hm
if it was a guy, what would you do? out of curiousity..haha
I meant the whole "This
I meant the whole
"This person is fantastic and I just found out I have a chance!"
Haha. Not the liking a girl specifically XD
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You're twisted and perverted. I like that in a person.
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haha yeah thats pretty much how i feel! thanks :)