
It's true.
Most everyone here is still very young, so ENJOY yourself!
Our orchestra teacher was talking about this today. She's pretty cool.
But, there was a reason I mentioned it. You need to have foresight.
I was looking at old times for the swim team, and I saw myself, 10/26/2008.
I had a 49.20 on the 50 free.
Which isn't too bad.
BUT
I saw I'd gotten that time on 10/20/2007.
That time was over a YEAR old, and it hadn't improved doodly squat!
I had no foresight. I was not looking at the future. I was lazy.
I didn't stop and THINK that maybe that wasted year might cost me sectionals 1 1/2 years later.
Luckily, after PNS champs 3 months ago, that was when I realized my error, and that I needed to get fast.
I realized it in time. I'm still young. Only 13, although that won't last too much longer.
I realized my error, because there was a guy I talked to at PNS champs. He's been swimming since he was 6. And working hard that whole time.
He has over a DOZEN PNS champs times! Now THAT is one guy who has his ducks in a row. He has foresight.
However, most young people don't stop to think that youth doesn't last forever. It doesn't even last that long.
ENJOY your time being young! It's probably the best time of your life.
That is one of the reasons I swim.
I know I'm young, and swimming is a GREAT way to enjoy that for me.
This is, again, for Tophat.
I think when you get angry, and push other people away, you make your life harder than it needs to be.
You're only (age omitted)!
You still have time to fix it. Please. You can't be young forever.
Being a kid is going to the movies. Being a kid is discovering the magic in things.
Being a kid is NOT pushing other people away and isolating yourself.
Understand that being young is the most vigorous time of your life.
Don't wish you're an adult! Enjoy yourself as a kid, and you'll be an adult whether or not you enjoy your childhood or not.
I'm not giving up on you.
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Wishing there were more teachers...
...who could inspire such wisdom. But... the receiver must be turned on and tuned to the right channel.
I truly hope that in this instance, the message was received loud and clear!
Young? you're a baby! Yuk,
Young? you're a baby!
Yuk, I'm 21. This is the bit of my youth where I'm meant to be building up a life.
And anway I don't want to be young. I want to be older, but happy. I want to be 37 with a baby and a career and a house and more bookshelves.
I want to have friends who come round to dinner, and who also have babies and also have careers and have the same books on their bookshelves.
*huggle* Chad you never fail
*huggle* Chad you never fail to amaze me. You've got such a poetic mind in that blondie-covered conker of yours, and I rarely get to see it in public. It's rather nice to get up and cook myself food and then read this XD I feel energized and happy readin' your stuff ^^
And yea, I think we ALL need to just slow down and live our young lives. When you spend it hatin' all you're gonna remember is the hate. It should be fun.
Oh yeah, and YES I did say "conker"
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There isn't a sharp line dividing humans from the rest of the animal kingdom. It's a very wuzzie line...and it's getting wuzzier all the time. - Jane Goodall.
Oh, Chad...
Thanks. So much. I saw a few things today that snapped me out of my misanthropic misery, and this helped.
Sigh. I hesitate to say this, in fact I've typed it and deleted it three times, but I love you and I'm sorry for the shit I do. You're one of the best friends I've ever had the pleasure to know, and you're also one of the ones I've abused most (Pat being the most, to my eternal shame).
Youth is precious. As a mere idiot I forget this forever. There are parts of my life that I've lost and wish I had, but I can't have them back and I never will. So I shouldn't ruminate on the past.
Long story short, thank you. *HUG*
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I love you.
Chad, don't understand me
Chad, don't understand me wrong. But there are people with some years older than you, and some of your age. Even so, I don't think you are supposed to judge them like that , because you might become the judged one , thing that you won't surely like it.
I don't barely understand why did you write in this post, your advise for Tophat. If I were in his shoes, I wouldn't feel okay if someone taught me "life lessons" and people to tell me how life could be better for me. I pretty much think that he would have asked for help if he seemed lost...
As I said. This is not an INSULT, not an argue or anything that is supposed to make you feel bad.