
I realized something at swimming today.
A year ago, I got a lot more attention and praise at swimming. That's because I was a star struggling to rise. Just starting to get out there and get good. Also, I was a lot lazier.
Now, I'm a success story, or rather, a success story in progress. If I continue how I am, and everything goes according to plan, in maybe another year, and certainly not more than two, I'll be the fastest person on my swim team.
This year, for high school swimming, a guy a year older than me, a freshman, and also SLOWER than me, made it to state.
That means that I'm going to state.
Now a lot of the attention goes to Nicole, and Chris. Because they're the struggling stars, not always showing up to practice and not always making sets. Our coach made a list of people's work ethics at practice, and I was at the top.
That makes me boring now.
I'm okay with that.
I have all my high school years ahead of me, and I just need to keep doing what I'm doing, and I'll do great things.
But, if you're a star that is on it's stable way up, you're much more boring than one that's struggling, and turbulent.
I'll be a lot more interesting if my body gives out from all this swimming, which, if I also keep doing what I'm doing, it might in a few years.
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Don't hurt yourself just for
Don't hurt yourself just for the attention, or for the change, baby. I'll feel terrible if you do that! Would you rather be proud of what you've done in twenty years, or upset because you blew it all away? :c
I want you to be happy- but I also want you to be safe.
Either way, I'm extremely proud of the progress you've made on your swimming. You're extremely good.
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There isn't a sharp line dividing humans from the rest of the animal kingdom. It's a very wuzzie line...and it's getting wuzzier all the time. - Jane Goodall.
I don't swim for the attention...
I said I was okay with not getting it. It doesn't matter to me if I get the praise. That's not my goal. My focus is on ME.
I'm okay with QUIETLY owning the rest of the swim team :D
Hai-kus are ea-sy
But some-times they don't make sense
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I'm just reminding you ;) I
I'm just reminding you ;) I love you! <3
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There isn't a sharp line dividing humans from the rest of the animal kingdom. It's a very wuzzie line...and it's getting wuzzier all the time. - Jane Goodall.
Me, too...
I share your concern. Chad is exceedingly competitive... not necessarily with the goal of besting all competition... but, to become the very best he himself can be.
The problem this goal poses, however, is that it is very easy to fall into the mistaken idea that more of the same is always better.
I have no idea how knowledgeable his coaches are on the ancillary activities that should be observed by a teen swimmer who aspires for excellence.
Just practice, practice, practice... more and more... and longer... is not something that should be done without paying attention to the concomitant development of supporting muscles.
I am not knowledgeable in this area beyond knowing that complementary exercises are required if damage to the primary swimming muscles is to be avoided.
Hopefully, Chad's coaches are not ignoring this very important aspect of safe and age-appropriate training.