Another Loved One Gone

patnelsonchilds's picture

Raja, my best friend and constant companion these past 13 years, passed away a few minutes ago. There was no fear or pain. He was in his own home, lying on my pillow, covered with a warm blanket, listening to me tell him how much I love him. It was a sad, beautiful moment, and one of countless wonderful memories of him that I'll keep forever.

He was sweet, loving kitty, and he always took good care of me. I don't know what I'm going to do without him.

I love you, Raj.

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Dracofangxxx's picture

Awh... *pat pat* I'm so

Awh... *pat pat* I'm so sorry to hear that...
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There isn't a sharp line dividing humans from the rest of the animal kingdom. It's a very wuzzie line...and it's getting wuzzier all the time. - Jane Goodall.

ferrets's picture

:/

im sorry mah buddy pat. losing pets is soooo hard

if your ever super sad, just rember, you could have been a blowjob.

fox333's picture

*HUGS* My condolences.

*HUGS* My condolences. Atleast there was no pain.

I swear to the Lord, I still can't see, why Democracy means, everybody but me.
- Langston Hughes

Bi the Book's picture

im sorry pat. *hugs* he

im sorry pat. *hugs* he seems like a special friend.

Wolfcry's picture

*hugs you close* does pat

*hugs you close* does pat needs a Raj memorial picture to be drawn?

Life is hard, but immortality is harder... Jasper Eversor Force

"Memories are nice, but thats all they are, you know?" - Rikku-FFX

"No matter how dark the night, morning always comes, and our journey begins anew." - Lulu-FFX

Morgan's picture

Ouch!

Been there. Micky haunted us for a while after someone killed her. She had a distinctive meow, and both me and Brian heard her at the same time a few times. After Micky was killed, we took in another feral kitten. They have so much in common, I sometimes wonder if Alex is a recycled Micky.

Raja and Jon are probably waiting, but what's a lifespan in eternity, huh? Do what ya gotta do to get to where you're going according to your pre-life contract with yourself.

I'd get another kitten AFTER you move to Port Jervis. Or maybe two. Most cats do seem to like company. It's not a relacement, but a whole new relationship.

I looked up Port Jervis on the web. Beautiful place. Being able to move there is one part of your life I envy. So's your job, in fact. (I have been officially downsized 2/2/10. I'm on the last of the reformatting. I'll have it pretty cleaned up and only in need of fine tuning. I'll have Brian copy everything to CD as soon as it's done, and we'll mail it to you in case we get nuked or something. Right now there's rumours of Iran doing something obnoxious to us 2/11/10, but we'll see. If anything happens, I wouldn't be surprised if it's a 'false flag' terror attack, and we use the self-induced attack to attack Iran.)

If you got Raja as a kitten, 13 is kind of young to die. A lot of the cat food is toxic. Titanium dioxide? Cobalt compounds? Phosphoric acid depletes calcium, and other additives cause cancer. I'd avoid the big brands like Purina. Ours get person food like fish steaks (wild caught preferred), shrimp, and canned fish or chicken in addition to Nutro food, which doesn't have meat byproducts. Chicken liver is good, too. That and fish have taurine.

ShowMeLove's picture

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I'm sorry, Pat. Though, I am glad you got to be there with him in his last moments.

This kind of hits a raw nerve for me though, as I can relate. I lost my cat, Chewy, last year. She was 22 years old, and was with me my entire life. I, however, didn't get to say goodbye.

Sorry, I got off track there. I hope you're doing okay.

Tophat's picture

This is a cruel goddamn world.

You know what I want to say, Pat... I've alreay told you after all.

I love you, Pat. I'm so sorry.

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I love you.

Fiona Rosge's picture

ya

I'm sorry, but at least he was happy, and I hope you will be too
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Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by

5thstory's picture

*Hug* " . . . The sun does

*Hug*
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens

patnelsonchilds's picture

Thanks Guys

I don't know what I'd do without everybody's support these past few weeks. no one I love is allowed to have so much as a cold for at least six months now. i figure I'm owed at least that.

*HUGS*

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- Pat Nelson Childs
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Morgan's picture

Nose pet back at ya.

Hopefully that's the last of the garbage you're going to have to deal with for the rest of your life.