And so we broke up. She still has feelings for her ex girlfriend that she hasn't resolved. She lied about them while we were together because she thought she would get over them. It has been the underlying problem of our entire relationship. It explains her behaviour on so many occassions.
As painful as this is right now, I also know that it is for the best. I was starting to resent her for things which, I suppose she couldn't control. She was in a relationship her heart wasn't in, and privatly trying to get over the woman who had broken her heart first. We were doomed from the outset, but I still wouldn't take a minute of what we had back when we were happy.
Right now I don't know how to move foward. I want to stay friends. I care about her deeply and would like to get back to when I didn't act like an asshole towards her because I was resenting her for still loving her ex girlfriend. Is it possible to stay friends? Or is that just crazy? Has anybody any advice from outside this situation?
I wish I had of known her first.