Pet peeve

swimmerguy's picture

I just really hate the term homosexual.

It just grates on a nerve I can't even understand.

It's probably because you don't often call straight people heterosexuals, you call them straight.

But still, I just hate it. Gay is fine, it's actually quite a lovely word. I like queer too. Even fag is just fine.

I would rather someone say "oh, he's a fag", rather than "oh, he's a homosexual"
It just kills me.
Pet peeve.

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Wolfcry's picture

lol I'd rather be Jack than

lol I'd rather be Jack than Fag Queer or an of the other ones.... I even got called Satan's spawn once...

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oldfoxbob's picture

same here

Gay is good,,,,queer is ok...fag? well I dont resemble a cigarette or stick since I am too fat in my mind for that. So I would go with The first two...Oh and HI Jack....Hows it hanging?
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Gabby21's picture

Gay is Good...:)

I don't really like the term homosexual either...but more rather it's so scientific. Like we are specimens to be classified. Well I suppose the term heterosexual is more scientific than straight or..... :D

swimmerguy's picture

I wasn't saying I WANTED to be called fag!

I really would not want to be CALLED any of these, but every time I hear someone talking about the "homosexuals" I just want to scream and/or punch them in the face.

Unfortunately a lot of times it's the newspaper...

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jeff's picture

Hmm...

Can we call you a homo? Do you only object to the full word? ;-)

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swimmerguy's picture

I rather dislike homo too

The "sexual" part of the word is not the part that bothers me. Maybe you could call me a sexual then...

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jeff's picture

Hmm...

Being more than 40, I don't think I'd refer to you as sexual. ;-)

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Wolfcry's picture

lol, how about horny? "And

lol, how about horny?

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Dracofangxxx's picture

GOSH CHAD QUIT BEING SUCH A

GOSH CHAD QUIT BEING SUCH A SEXUAL

I mean... it's all in your genetics ;D

You're too sexual for your shirt
Too sexual for your shirt
So sexual it hurtsssssssssssssss

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ferrets's picture

good point...

i dont like the word either. it sounds scary D:

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Riku's picture

I don't like how it sounds

I don't like how it sounds like a classification or a mental problem. I don't like the terms "transsexual" or "transgendered" for the same reasons, but then I start running out of things to call myself (especially since I also object to "FTM" for various other reasons.) so I just say "trans" most of the time... Too bad then nobody has any idea what I'm taking about, not that it matters because they all get the wrong idea if I say "transsexual" anyway. :/

TotalGeek42's picture

Hm... if somebody asks I

Hm... if somebody asks I tell them I'm trans too... or a transguy. Either works. It's much easier than transgender...

Not that anybody asks... oO

They just assume I'm a guy, really... which is good. Definitely good..

As for FTM for me... it sounds too masculine to me, almost... or maybe it's too feminine? I don't even know... it just doesn't fit me. xD

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Wolfcry's picture

lol, just say your a boy

lol, just say your a boy that likes boys ash.

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Riku's picture

That is what I say most of

That is what I say most of the time. =P

I do like to educate people about trans stuff though, as much as I hate putting myself on the spotlight I think that people often need personal stories to understand this stuff.

Wolfcry's picture

lol, I think it would be fun

lol, I think it would be fun to hang out with you. You would just have to be worried of what would happen to people that insult you... *evil grin* I'd have a bit of fun. ;D feel free to come hang when my band goes on tour!

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Riku's picture

Haha, honestly I'm probably

Haha, honestly I'm probably way more fun online than I am in person. I'm usually pretty quiet. XD; (unless I'm in art class. Art class doesn't count.)

Most people know better than to insult me, because I'm usually pretty quick to insult them right back... And I can get mean. >_>

Wolfcry's picture

I squish ppl who insult my

I squish ppl who insult my friends. OMFG YOU SOUND LIKE MY NEW BEST FRIEND! I have always wanted a bff who knows how to shut the fuck up and enjoy companionable silence!

"And yet, to say the truth, reason and love keep little company together nowadays." -William Shakespear, A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act 3, Scene 1

TotalGeek42's picture

Pfft, you're plenty fun.

Pfft, you're plenty fun. :P

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"Well I've got a banana, and in a pinch you could put up some shelves..."

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Wolfcry's picture

lol I'm like I'm on E "And

lol I'm like I'm on E. but only when I haven't had any caffine for a while...

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dangthien94's picture

Same here.

I don't like any of those words >.>