Polar bears are ba*tards

the ghost's picture

I think I am annoyed with my girlfriend. I'm not sure I should be posting a journal, which will essentially end up being a rant about stuff, because she is a lovely lovely person, but I am frustrated. I am not sure how to articulate this though.

I think she never thinks about my feelings. When I try and tell her I am upset, she tells me she cares, she wants things to be better, she doesn't want to keep hurting me. But then she seems to think brushing all these things that have been said aside, and forcing me to get on with things, and get over what has upset me is the way to go. I feel like she freezes me out so often too. I feel like a stranger to her, and she just doesn't communicate with me at all. I think maybe she is just with me for the sake of it.

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Uncertain's picture

hey the ghost

what exactly upsetted you? is there anything she can do to fix it? maybe moving on seems to be one of the only options

if what she did was not too serious you probably can't hold it against her, it's not healthy for a relationship anyway

and i guess this is one of those situations when you love her more than she loves you. she knows she wants you to be happy, but she's not willing or able to change herself to make it happen

i gues if that's the case to protect yourself you just have to be a little less sensitive and more detached from her

and... fucking polar bears