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I'm gay... i just realized this.
except i have a girlfriend. and i don't wanna tell her that the reason i wanna break up is because i'm gay.
even if i made up a reason, if she saw me or heard. about me going out with a guy, she'd like kill herself... because nowadays, at least at my school, it's social suicide to date a gay guy before he comes out. and to make matters worse, i've already met her parents and i have a crush on her gay best friend (he's literally the cutest boy i've ever seen, other than ones on TV).

ugh.

what do i do?

You tell her you're gay.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

not trying to sound mean, just curious.

yes tell her ur gay, but becareful how u do it.
its going to be hard at first because evryone will judge, but u need the truth out ther and after the truth is out ther, u will feel better and then u can go out wth her hot gay friend,

sorry, i'm 15 and in a bad stage in my life as well. my father died 10 years ago. then she remarried a man 5 years ago and they got divorced 2 months ago. so now we are barely getting by, and since my family is catholic and belonging to the republican party, i don't know how well it would sit with my mom or anyone else in my family...

all this is aside from what would happen at school...

aside from my family issues, i also am very passionate about basketball and i have no clue how well my teammates would react if they discovered is was gay, especially since we change in the locker room everyday.

I SWIM! We change in the locker room and have naked conversations and they don't care. And they don't care if I watch them swim or anything. If they are your true friends, they will not care.

If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

Except for those few who have wronged me horribly. But, I also love some just a little more than others.

If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill

well i love everyone except tophat now

ur family will love and support u with what u are

if being gay make u happy then dont let anyone tell u differnet,
yes the boys on the basketball team may feel uncomfortable, but they will get used to it, if they are ur friends they will be what friends are

remember
u are who u are
dont let anyone tell u different

be happy, this is ur life and u should be happy and optimistic about it

ur family will love and support u with what u are

remember
u are who u are
dont let anyone tell u different

be happy, this is ur life and u should be happy and optimistic about it

Despite the fact that her spelling is atrocious.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

my spelling is not atrorcious darling

According to the way you spell atrocious it is. ;D

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

u are being sooo mean
im going to cry

"sob, sob sob"

thanks you guys. i'll see what i can do. i will not take your advice for granted. but i might have to take awhile to mentally, emotionally, and (perhaps) physically prepare myself for the mission i'm about to embark on.

cherry, i loved the poems that you wrote in your journal thing, btw.

Fine, I just won't write any poems for you.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

be nice to Zboy7
hes going through a lot

Did you become Mother Theresa?

You old Sugar Momma, you just want another boy toy.

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

that is soooo fucking mean

I sowwy. Does this mean no Porn Party? Ahahahaha!

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

ooooooooooooooo YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

I will never forgive you for this!

Pleeeease un-cancel it!!!

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

Awwww....

*Sniffle* But I looove youuuu....

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Those who are united in love know no separation.
-Meher Baba

go cry to swimmerguy

what did you mean by "boy toy"?

he meant cherrylover just wants to suduce you into bed ;)

experince the awe and mystery that reaches from the deepest inner mind to the outer limits!

but i don't think any girl could do that... like seduce me to do anything. i'd like throw up.

*no offense cherry*

ferret doesnt know what hes talking about

you're a big help, cherrrrry, i hope ya know that.

but remember this is ur life
make of it wat u want it to be

NEVER NEVER NEVER let anyon tell u diffenrent

btw, can i come to your cancelled porn party? (sarcasm)

hahaha sure(sarcasm back)
lol

u never wrote me a poem

wait was i supposed to?

tophat is suppose to

well i'll write one anyways for you.

thats soooo sweet
ill write one for u to

take as long as u need to prepare urself
because its going to be hard, but at the end it will be worth it
love u

thank u sweatheart

k fine i love poems too(:

and cherry r u a girl? haha sorry random question but i like curious.

i love *your* poems too (sorry typo)

then what did tophat mean by "boytoy"?

shes a bit boy crazy ;D

experince the awe and mystery that reaches from the deepest inner mind to the outer limits!

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