I might have gotten asked out. Or not.
This is just an update on nothing.
Today, in orchestra, I was totally hitting on a straight guy and the girls were FREAKING. He didn't care though. He can be pretty cool sometimes...
Then, I got asked out by a guy. But this is vastly complicated by the fact that he is the WEIRDEST guy I've ever met. REALLY weird. But awesome. He keeps asking me "you wanna make out?" or "you wanna have sex?" and I have NO idea at all when he's being serious or not or if he's ever been serious ever. Today he asked me out, but it was a quick moment and I didn't really say much. He is just so weird. I don't even know if he's gay. He seems like it, but he's just the weirdest guy you'd ever meet. Maybe he jokes all the times he grabs my ass in Bio... Well, what to do?
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Depends.
You said alot about him, but not much about how you felt about him. If you like him, or if he is just sort of there. If you like him, then let what happens happen, if not, distance yourself from him. It doesn't seem like you're friends with him. Or tell him to stop, or not. Its really your call, sorry I can't help more.
"If you never asked who I am, how can you assume you know me?"
About what you said.
I think he's an AWESOME guy. But he's really weird. And I don't want to make any sort of blunder here, by assuming he's gay or serious.
If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill
Lol. He sounds like someone
Lol. He sounds like someone I used to know (except the asking out part). He's straight though... sometimes you just never know if they're joking. But again, you never know he might be dropping hints. Plus, he asked you out. Doesn't that remove a lot of ambiguity? Does he know you're gay? Get him drunk.
Good Advice, Except...
for the "getting him drunk" part. I'd guess his weirdness started with the rumor mill... so, he likely knows. Alcohol has a very strange affect on one's libido... so whatever ensues, you never know for sure. I'd avoid that situation for a few more years...
Well, seeing though alcohol
Well, seeing though alcohol is out of the question... How about some nitrous? Last I knew, it doesn't effect one's libido, and it removes quite a lot of inhibition. It's also funny as hell.
he's what u really do
play with his jokingly jokes
show him ur interested, then u can see if he likes u or if hes joking,
but be care full the way u joke wiht him
u now give him flirty looks
touch him in a friendly, but seductive was
see how he reacts to that
then ignor him for a little bit
and then
walla
boyfriend in ur hand
love
u
-cherry styl-
haha
second that
I'm split on how I think in
I'm split on how I think in this situation. There's quite a good chance that he acts weird, so he exudes some type of confidence. Confident people don't get beat up, usually.
But, he could also just act weird, because that's who he is.
I'm not entirely sure... Sorry. I just can't tell if he's wearing a façade.
Well...
I think I shall just avoid the situation and everything it might bring, and continue trying to solve this little puzzle of a friend I have here.
If you're going through hell, keep going. ~Winston Churchill
well
GOOD CHOICE
Chad
chad, honey, I envy your situation, but from my experience, guys usually are joking around. I have plenty of friends who make sexual gestures that they never intend to fulfill.... however that may be due to the fact that they think i'm straight still. Imma go with my gut and say he's gay, but there is no way in hell he's comin out any time soon. it might be awhile before anything actually happens between you two. but when the moment finally does come (literally), GOOD LUCKK !
love ya