Lipstick lesbians aren't real lesbians
So according to my sister I am not really gay because I am a "lipstick" lesbian. Just because I don't wear flannel and have super short hair doesn't mean that I'm not gay. What a silly breeder ;P.
This all started though because saturday we got into a fight because she was talking shit to me and while she was straightening her hair I went and pushed her then she tried to punch me and I grabbed her hand and she called me a dumb dyke bitch and I pull back to punch her and she was like DO IT! so I punched her and then she goes after me and I push her into our piano and she twists her ankle :) then she gets up and tries to come after me with a highchair tray. My dad walked in then and was like what the hell?!
I won.
No fighting is not right but if you have a sister you'll understand a little bit but my sister is crazy. For real.
And then just now she tries to tell me that I'm not gay. Neat! Its whatever though I'm not bothered by her stupidity anymore.
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I understand...
I understand where you are coming from. I can't even begin to tell you how many friends have thought I must not be gay because I am not a butch. I wear girl clothes, do my hair, and even paint my toe nails. I am in no way, shape or form straight though. I truly and wholeheartedly love women:)
Chelsea
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stereotypes suck, don't
stereotypes suck, don't they?
Yes!
Why yes my friend stereotypes do indeed suck!
Peace,
Chels
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Hahaa
So according to her, lipstick feminists aren't really feminists as well?
Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so.
Well I've heard the...
opinion that butches aren't really feminists either soo...
yours sister and my sister
yours sister and my sister would love eachother. I don't know what my sister's position on lipsticks are but I do know that she is crazy too. and not in a good way.
even though i'm the oldest,
even though i'm the oldest, i'm the smallest of the three of us, so i wouldn't dream of physically confronting my sister.
but yeah, i admit, when i see a really girly-girl, lesbian is definitely not the first thing that pops into my head.
so for those of you falling in love
keep it kind, keep it good, keep it right
throw yourself in the midst of danger
and keep one eye open at night.
--"Elephants" Rachel Yamagata
Oh, gosh, I hate that
Oh, gosh, I hate that mentality... I can't even begin to count how many times I've grumpily explained that not all lesbians are butch, and not all gay men are flamboyant queens.
The Super Duck is an example of this; she fails really hard at being stereotypically lesbian. She shaves her legs, does not own any flannel shirts, and has never had super short hair-- never cut it above the shoulders, now that she thinks about it.
I... don't know why I started referring to myself in third person. Maybe I should go to bed.
Speaking of flannel...
This summer for my birthday my dad got me a flannel shirt as a joke. Lol.
But stereotypes suck... Even if I am one. Lol.
<3 FLAME ON! <3
I'm the same way lol. The
I'm the same way lol. The only thing that really makes me gay is the fact that I like girls.. and well thats enough haha. I'm not about to change who I am so I prove to people that I'm gay. Flannel isn't my thing anyways :P
=)
But I like flannels... That's just me LOL
Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so.
heh
i would be very steriotipical of a young gay male if my mum would let me buy the STUPID RIANBOW UNDERWARE >.< sorry personal joke....
without ferrets, this world would be hell in a a hamster cage
Yes yes, it is definitely a not cool stereotype
I actually think that in some ways Femmes can be considered gayer... my logic behind this: Butches are Masculine women, therefore closer to male than Femmes. Therefore if they like (especially more femme) women, then they like people of a less similar gender to themselves, than say a femme who like femme women. Therin lies the logic.
Now the gayest of them all are people like my girlfriend and I who are both genderqueer. We are gayboys and dykes! at the same time, and we are kind of trans too. Crazy!! Hehe that was a joke, no offense intended.
TerraBean
I look like a moron in
I look like a moron in flannel...Oddly enough, my mother is straight and wears flannel all the time. My dykey girlfriend doesn't wear flannel at all...funny how we think things should be. I'm a lipstick lesbian...it's more fun that way. :] And I paint my toes and dye my hair and wear make-up and sometimes...I even cry. I don't like all women...I just like MY woman.
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