Girl Help

rainforestchild's picture

Hey! So I haven't been on Oasis in months and now it seems like I barely know anyone haha. I came back to ask some advice because I don't really have any gay friends so they don't really get it.

There is this girl I have liked for a while now and I recently found out that she liked me all last year. I got all of that info through another friend who was talking to her about it. At that point she was already in a relationship with a guy though. Now they have broken up and I'm not sure what to do. I don't know if she still likes me and I'm soooo shy. I can barely even look her in the eye! Should I risk asking her out or wait to see if she asks me (since she knows I like her)? Also, how do you get someone alone to ask them out? And how does a girl ask another girl out? <-- I guess that's my biggest question.

oh... and when my friend told her that I liked her she said, "I wish I didn't have a boyfriend right now." and she has asked my friend since then if I still like her, which makes me think that possibly she might say yes. sorry for ranting!!

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elph's picture

You Have a Mutual Friend...

...Why not ask her/him to intercede? It sounds as if she/he (you didn't say) has already laid the ground work!

tenmilestilts's picture

think about this: she might

think about this: she might be going through the same "should i just wait? she knows i like her" thing, and then nothing will ever happen. if i were you i'd just write a little note "do you wanna go out with me? <3" and give it to her. i think it sounds very promising. =) good luck whatever you decide to do!
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Two wrongs don't make a right but three lefts do!

rainforestchild's picture

hmmm

true...but I feel like that might be a little awkward. I don't want to rely on my friend that much. oh and she's a girl haha sorry I forgot to say that.

rainforestchild's picture

ooo.... I might do the note

ooo.... I might do the note thing...maybe. thanks guys!

carmen143's picture

A note is a good plan.

Plus its also cute and charming.
So you got that going for you.
I know that its nerve racking to ask someone out but you can just ask.
What have you got to lose! You can do it. :)
<3 FLAME ON! <3

kuu2's picture

trying to make musical sounds.

im with carmen. a note can be sooo sweet.

Life is easily complicated.

fox333's picture

Yeah, notes are cute!

Yeah, notes are cute!