Okay, WTF? Do you always just come on to a group and tell people what;s wrong with them? Who made you a doctor, huh?

You don't wanna be rude? Yeah, right, bullshit. If you didn't want to be rude, you shouldn't have posted, you asshole! What gives you the right to say that kind of thing to me and Pat? Maybe Adam, but hell, he is freaky.

I'm so sorry you're just too mature, politically correct and perfect for all of us. Which unfortunately would make you incredibly boring.

I think there's something called emotions, ranting, personal expression and sarcasm. If you haven't come across any of these in your life, you're in denial. Not in the closet way, but in a sad, emotionally suppressed way. Unless you're just too ordinary, which again makes you incredibly boring.

And please do continue your 'observating', because we're really just animals in a zoo to satisfy your bloated ego.

You have no right to judge those people.

Oh, and do try and enjoy your stay.

What the hell is your problem? Were you actually hiding around as a guest until you thought you had enough information on everyone or something? Do you have an opinion about all of us?

Even though I haven't spoken to Pat yet, I can tell he's one of the best things that ever happened to this site. Don't you dare judge him for his suicide attempt! Same goes for Tim. And yeah, Adam is kinda freaky, but let him be.
And seriously, if you have a problem with any of them or us or whatever, that just shows you could try to be a little more accepting. Well, no, a LOT.

Geez.

er....like thanks for all the fucking support...get all upset him talking about pat and tim but adam...yeh, he's fucked in the head we know...thanks...festering cunts. no really...fuck you

Were all human you know.

You'd be surprised how many people have "issues". You get to high school and you're hard pressed to find someone who doesn't. I mean, we don't all share them with the world. But everyone has their problems.

And we're people too, would you talk like that to a friend who is having a hard time? It's easy to be cold over the internet, don't forget that on the other side of that screen and behind all of that text, there is another person.

I'm giving you some benefit of the doubt because you're new and you're young. But, it's generally a bad idea to introduce yourself and proceed to call everyone crazy or emotionally disturbed. :/ This is a site for support.

Hopefully your second post goes better than your first. Welcome.

Have you ever heard that expression about first impressions? You know, "First impressions are the greatest impression on the mind."

You just failed miserably.

It's cool and all that your fourteen year old brain has figured it all out, so thank you so much for telling the rest of us how to live. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Given your hasty assessment of the people here as "eotionally disturbed" (I think you meant eMotionally) it is my assessment of you that you shouldn't post on websites where people with an IQ above 75 will be reading your posts.

You may want to stop "observating" and start reading "Social Ineptitude for Dummies." Or better yet, you may wish to take an English language course and check your spelling before insulting people. Emotionally disturbed, are you? Well, this healthy diatribe of mine is just going round circle to call you an idiot.

There's hope for you yet! So... I'll help you out here. Don't go onto a journaling website and oh, for all intents and purposes we'll call it OasisJournals.com, and personally insult three of the most well known and beloved members on the website. Also try to avoid insulting everybody on said website.

Better yet, just don't post here again.

- One Nation, Under Darkness, with liberty and justice for white, heterosexual, rich, Christian men

people have problems. you may not have any fucking problems. but this is where we come to share our problems. plus if there were no"freaky" peopl, then there wouldnt be any normal people either. so if you stalk us then complain about us, just complain to your friends. oh yeah your probley to perfect for friends. did you come here just to sling mud? cuases if you did, then you can kindly leave until you can be kind. if adam, pat, and tim left the sight would be as boring as heck. so keep your fucking unkind oppeniens to yourslef. we come here to not be judged. we feel safe here. until people like you come along and make us nervous to even coment, much less post. how long have you been wacthing us? a week, amonth, a year. you have to eccept people for how they are. if you have a problem with the suicidel stuff then dont read it. but that is the real world.

ferrets

I also messaged this to Adam but I want to say it again since he's not replying: I'm sorry about what I said. This post was one of the first things I saw this morning and I didn't take enough time to write and reread what I posted. I normally reread everything like, twice, to see if I make any mistakes or if I even speak normal english.
As stupid as it may sound, a friend of mine uses "freaky" as a nickname (as in "hey freaky!") and she doesn't mean it like what it says in my english-dutch dictionary. I thought it meant something less offending, more fun-ish. I really don't know how to explain it other than this.
I'm just really sorry. I didn't mean to say Adam wasn't a great person, because he is. And I know you won't believe it anyway, no matter how often I say this. So whatever.

of course we're all a bit screwed up. have you looked outside at the world we live in? it's a fucked up place, where there's little love for anyone who's 'different'. but oasis is a place where we can BE a bit screwed up, without fear of judgement, or of being told we're wrong.

so...if you're looking for a place to find support, and love, here we are.

as many other people have said, pat is a pillar of the website. YEAH he needs some help, but ya know what? there's not a damn thing wrong with that. WantsOut is a sweet kid, who's going through some hard times. so, what? we should just judge him as being a bad person because he wanted to die? what exactly is wrong with that?

adam (i'm about you out you, man) is a very, very kind young man, who is very troubled, and very talented. did you take the time to look at his artwork? or at the fact that he puts himself out to be attacked time and time again, in the hope that if people are mad at him, they won't think as much about their own problems. he cares so much about all of us, yet doesn't know how to express it.

and me? i spent 6 months of my life wanting to die. does that make me less worthy? i noticed you didn't mention other people in your list of 'disturbed' people. how about the ones who want to cut themselves? or the ones who cry for hours because of the hurtful things their parents say?

and did you not notice the joy here, too? the caring, the understanding. the way complete strangers can come together and become friends. how we are all connected by one thing, yet we find a million other things to share with each other. did you not notice the trust, or the love between us all?

perhaps it's YOU who needs the counseling, and perhaps it's not. because other people have already bashed you, i'm trying desperately to not attack you in my reply. this place isn't about JUDGING. how can you not see that? and how dare you, who seems to have no understanding of what being 'emotionally disturbed' means, suggest that WE need help?

Bulldyke
"As my mother always said, there's nothing that says 'stay out of my airspace' quite like a couple of F-18s." ~Rachel Maddow

there's enough drama on this site for now. So, I'm closing down comments on this.

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"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis