so...first of all.

i've been thinking, about a few things that a few people have said. about cliques on oasis, and about this being a safe place.

i do my best to talk to everyone here. but i'm only human. i don't always have the energy or inclination to read/comment on every journal.

and yes, i do have my favorites, and my friends. people i make it a point to talk to when they're on, or at least to comment when they write. i'm human, and unlike pat, i come here for ME, not for everyone else.

which may sound weird, concidering how much i try to help people. but this site is where i take care of myself...and when i can, i like to help others along the way.

what i'm trying to say is this.

i may not read your journal, and if i do, i may not write a comment. but i do care. and if you want to talk to someone, or need a friend, or whatever, please message me. i feel bad that i don't have the time always to read everyone's journals...

the other thing is...

am i the only dyke in the universe who doesn't like ellen all that much? i mean, i think it's WONDERFUL that she is who she is, and does what she does. but...eh. i don't think she's all that funny, and i don't like her show all that much.

just wondering.

i don't like chocolate either.

i think this is proof that i'm more of a guy than a girl. :P

BD