Hi I'm Pat's Mom
Hello to everyone, I thought I should set up my own account so that you would not be confused when I used Pat's information. He will not be on line for awhile. I just wanted to tell you how wonderful it was to hear his voice today and also how touched I am to read all of the love and support that you are sending to my Son. Being a part of your lives means a great deal to Pat he loves you all and is anxious to be back with you. I especially want to thank Adam A. for going with his gut feeling and sounding the alarm and to Jeff for eventually getting Pat the help that he really needed. It just once again proved to me just how close we all are in this big and often scary world. Pat wanted me to give his love to "all of his kids" he thinks the world of you all and you are often what keeps him going when the going is rough.
Please feel free to message me. I can in no way begin to fill Pat's shoes but I can pass along any messages to him that you want me to.
Each and everyone of you is very unique and wonderful so believe in yourselves even during the times when it seems that no one else does.
You will be in my heart and prayers each day.
Thanks again Adam A. and Jeff you are my heroes.
May each one of you be surrounded by the White Light of Spiritual Protection every day of your lives.
Love & Light, Glyn aka Whisperinghope
If you are not getting confirmation e-mails from Oasis to complete your membership, don't hesitate to e-mail jeff at oasismag dot com. Be sure to include your username.
Recent articles
Recent journal entries
Active forum topics
- The Curse of Reparative Therapy
- First Book: 'Keeping You A Secret' By Julie Anne Peters
- A Kids Reaction To A Gay Couple
- The Importance Of Giving Feedback
- Can you envisage an any more pointless existence?
- Advice?
- Will Portman - Son of Ohio's Senator Portman: His Column on Coming Out
- Can you imagine the vitriol unleashed by Republicans…
- coming out
- Islam and Homosexuality
Welcome...
Glad you made it, despite the circumstances.
I linked to this forum from the post on the front page.
---
"People who are happy are slugs... They do not move the human race forward."
-- Camille Paglia, on Oasis
meow
hey pat's mum!
You're exactly how I imagined pat's mum would sound like hehehe.
I'm not really one of the kids...i believe pat's official title for me is "wanker" but rest assured I love your son very much and couldn't be more grateful to him, more relieved he is still with us and more sorry I could not have done any more from my little side of the world. It's very nice of you to come on here and mediate between pat and the rest of us here, as many have been quite worried (some are prone to panic).
Im not sure if you are aware of this...but pat's work here has been quite incredible...he's been quite the role model for many, a mentor, an inspiration, a best friend, sometimes even a parent; not he has literally saved a number of lives. I hope you are very proud of your son, he is a strong man with a giant heart.
regards,
Adam James David Anderson
thank you so much for
thank you so much for posting this...and for having raised such a wonderful person.
tell pat, for me, that we're all rooting for him, and that we can't wait until he's back.
tell him that i send my love and hugs, and that i'm lighting a candle for him.
also...if YOU need anyone to talk to through all of this, please feel free to message me. i can't imagine how hard this must be for you, and if there's anything i can do...i know i'm a complete stranger, but please, just ask.
as adam said, your son is an amazing man. i don't think there is a single person on this site who has not benifited from his insight and wisdom, and many of us are better people for knowing him. i know i certainly am.
oh, and tell him that it's worth going on...that i don't know him as well as i'd like, but that i know that for certain. it's not his time yet, and even though it might seem impossibly hard, giving up would be a terrible waste.
*hugs* to you and your son
Bulldyke
"I think some mistakes are meant to be made, because we can't help but hope that they won't be mistakes."
Tell Pat we all give him
Tell Pat we all give him *hugs*
~~~Fear is only a verb if you let it be.. don't you dare let go of my hand~~~
Up date on Pat
Gentle hugs, Glyn
> Please forgive me if I am not posting correctly I just wanted you all to know that Pat called me this afternoon and was stronger of voice and more peaceful in his heart. Thank you all for responding to me I will keep you updated and will also share your good wishes and love with Pat. Thank you for the offer Bulldyke I might just take you up on it.
I think it must be lunch time or dinner time or something as I am getting hungry. It has been a long day but already I have met some great people and it is nice to know how much Pat is loved. I only regret that his Dad and I have not always been able to impress this upon him at times over the years. Now I only wish that his book sales would really take off. Writing this Trilogy has been a life long dream of his and I pray to God that he will be able to finish book three soon.
My life time motto has always been, "Do unto others as you would they do unto you" using this, at the end of the day, at least I can live with myself (most of the tiem) *S* (Smile)
Gentle hugs, Glyn aka Whisperinghope
*hugs* for you and Pat.
*hugs* for you and Pat.
Hi Pat's Mom,
Not like you don't already know this, but you have raised a seriously awesome son. Best wishes to you and him, and I hope he feels alright, and gets better soon.
Do I shock you darling?
-Sally Bowles, Cabaret
Could you please tell Pat
Could you please tell Pat that Matt sends his love and support, and that I'm going to rock the interview next Friday just for him? Thank you!
"But don't be afraid to be a fool. Remember, you cannot be both young and wise. Young people who pretend to be wise to the ways of the world are mostly just cynics. Cynicism masquerades as wisdom, but it is the farthest thing from it."
-Stephen Colbert
Ello momma Pat!
Lemme just say that i can tell that Pat is your son. You raised him very well. *sends Pat love through the computer screen*
"Reality is merely an illusion, allbeit a persistent one"
*waves*
hi pat's mom! well, i think everyone has already said what i was thinking, which is, you have raised a wonderful and loving son, and i can definitely see where he gets his strength and compassion.
tell pat we all love and miss him!
so for those of you falling in love
keep it kind, keep it good, keep it right
throw yourself in the midst of danger
and keep one eye open at night.
--"Elephants" Rachel Yamagata
I hope that things are
I hope that things are getting better there :) Love and hugs to you and Pat :)
Go hence, to have more talk of these sad things. Some shall be pardoned, some punished. Never was a story of more regret than this of Juliet and her fair Juliet.
Aww, tell him everyone from
Aww, tell him everyone from Oasis mag says hi and gives him all the love we can offer. Which, might I add, is ALL the love in the WORLD.
Pat's a great guy, and deserves all the fantastic opportunities that are sure to come his way.
*hug*
we'll sure miss your son a bagillion!!
xxx
Indisguise
"Don't mind me if I get weak in the knees, 'cause you have that affect on me."
Even though i messaged you,
Even though i messaged you, i thought i should post here also.
I send all of my love your way.
Thankyou for raising such a kind son.
He definitly is everyones favourite rock arround here and i know i am itching to talk to him again.
Best luck and best wishes.
It is thyself, mine own self's better part;
Mine eye's clear eye, my dear heart's dearer heart;
My food, my fortune, and my sweet hope's aim,
My sole earth's heaven, and my heaven's claim.
-William Shakespeare, The Comedy Of Errors
Hello, Tell Pat that my
Hello,
Tell Pat that my thoughts are with him and that he is a huge inspiration me. His friendship means a lot to me and I'm sad to hear of all that he has been going through. He's a great man and he's taught me a lot over the few years that I've known him. He helped me with confidence in myself and has given me the inspiration to finish my own books and to face the world a better person. His words of wisdom have always stuck with me and they keep me going when I need a push in the right direction.
Please tell Pat that I (Greg) send him love.
Please, tell Pat that Tim
Please, tell Pat that Tim sends his overwhelming love and support.
THANK YOU, thank you for raising Pat, thank you for helping make him the wonderful and incredible person he is today. He's like a dad to me, and I'm s thrilled that he's alive. I was so worried...
I also want Pat to know how much I want to give him a big hug right now.
Thank you again (I can't say it enough),
Tim
A is for Amy who fell down the stairs, B is for Basil assaulted by bears.
-The Gashlycrumb Tinies, Edward Gorey
Hey there
Just wanted to say, thanks for signing up here and being a link between us and Pat. Everyone else pretty much has already said what's on my mind, except they said it better. But I'm glad to know he's okay, and best wishes to the both of you.
<3
Hope he is back soon (:
Thanks for keeping us updated, he is a big support for everyone, I'm sending him all the love and hugs through this webpage, thanks again and goodbye c:
meow
mrs childs...so you know this is just a few of the people in touch with pat, there are many others...some who have left the site, some are shy and some just haven't logged on for a few days and don't really know what's going on.
please tell Pat i send my
please tell Pat i send my love! i don't know him very well, but he's still an amazing guy. he's really taken up the space that was left empty when my dad left. he's an inspiration to me-to all of us, i think-and he just has a certain je ne sais quoi that i love dearly.
"Up your ziggy with a wah-wah brush!"
-All I wanna Do (good movie. see it!)
I know everyone's already
I know everyone's already said this, but you've raised a wonderful son. Hugs for him, I'm so glad he's going to be okay.
"When the people begin to reason, all is lost" - Voltaire
I just wanted to say that I
I just wanted to say that I am glad that Pat is doing okay :o). We were worried about him--he is very important to everyone at Oasis (I've never even spoken to him on this site...and I still feel like he has helped me, just by making himself available to talk to. And I know that he has helped a lot of other people on here). I hope that he keeps getting better, so that we can talk to him again soon.
Hi Pat's mam. I just wanted
Hi Pat's mam. I just wanted to say please pass on my well wishes and hugs to Pat =]
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent-Eleanor Roosevelt
Just jumping on the
Just jumping on the bandwagon here and I can't say much that hasn't already been said, but send Pat my love and hugs and all of that. And tell him that I'll write him something ^^
He really is a spectacular man. You should be very proud.
Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader
Hello Pat's mum. There's not
Hello Pat's mum.
There's not really much I can add to this, but please send Pat my very best wishes. And, by the way, Pat's a terrific person, you should be very proud.
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
I just found out what
I just found out what happened.
I'm sure you're very worried, but relieved that Pat is okay. I'll send my love and prayers to you and Pat.
Thank you for raising such a wonderful person.
Prayers for Pat
Just so you know, Pat and your family is in my prayers. Pat always makes me smile just by being himself. I almost feel inspired to write, im not what im going to write but i feel like i need to. (if Pat reads this i know that would make him smile!!!)
"I know you can be OVERwhelmed and I know you can be UNDERwhelmed but can you just be Whelmed???
I think you can in Euorope"
-10 things i hate about you!