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hahaha I did the same thing
hahaha I did the same thing in gym, in fact the only good part about that class was when the lacrosse girls came into the locker room and took off their shirts. :)
Talking about going to the
Talking about going to the Gay Pride Parade in Chicago with my friend and saying how we will get there even if we have to hitchhike and whore ourselves there.
Also, cetching myself staring at boobs. But that happens on the daily :D
When K says "Oh your a
When K says "Oh your a lesbian, would you do her!?" and points to attractive girl atschool.
I have two choices for today:
When I went downstairs to tell my mom about the new Indigo Girls CD (she's also a fan) and ended up asking her to take me to the local GLBT community center's youth night, or when I was looking at this website for the first time and also thinking about the soap opera disguised as a violin group- specifically the girl who may or may not be my girlfriend- ten minutes before that.
Of course, yesterday's was definitely ogling my belly dancing teacher. She's gorgeous, a wonderful dancer, and at least a decade older than me. Didn't stop my hormones when she hugged me at the end of class, though. *grins* (In case you're wondering, she's leaving for a month to study belly dancing in New York City.)
It made sense in my head, I swear.
“The history of saints is mainly the history of insane people.”
-Benito Mussolini
When I find myself
When I find myself rehearsing all my possible coming out scenarios :)
Ah, I do exactly the
Ah, I do exactly the same...
Plus watching 'Beyonce: From the beginning' all the way through. I don't like her music that much, and it went on for 2hrs, but I couldn't quite turn the tv off :P
"Inside my heart is breaking, my make-up may be flaking, but my smile stays on..."
Watching the guys change for
Watching the guys change for Mr. Pawling 'pageant' while waiting for my band's turn to perfomrm. O.O
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"It's more addictive than pistacios... Well, have you ever eaten just one pistacio?"
- Abby from NCIS
at zee mall with my younger
at zee mall with my younger brother today, we had to walk past Vicky's (what my straight friends call Victoria's Secret) when we were leaving. he slows down, and starts drooling (not literally), so i say, "John! Let's go!" and pull him, and then see what he's looking at and think, "damnnnnn"
before i collect myself and get him to walk away.
dancing at queer prom!
dancing at queer prom!
Staring at the guys on dvd
Staring at the guys on dvd covers while shopping for movies with my lezzie cousin from Ireland. (I would also say she had one staring at all the girls in the mall and on cd covers.)
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"It's more addictive than pistacios... Well, have you ever eaten just one pistacio?"
- Abby from NCIS
When I debate on telling my
When I debate on telling my parents that im gay but then thinking how much i already make it obvious.
i want to tell them but i like my life the way it is.
well except for the hiding one of the biggest parts of my life from pretty much anyone who knows me.
ive only come out 2 6 ppl. none of them family. isnt that jsut dandy? but i no a lot of others on here r on the same boat
~Why put a label on anything? A label is something to tell other people what you are and why should you care about what other people think?~
My friend on the softball
My friend on the softball team made a song up about me...
"I love redheaded dykes! They're my favorite kind of lesbian"
Also wearing a rainbow ribbon in my hair during a game.
mine
mine was when i was repaying a friend with dinner (he loaned me over 200) and was questioned by a local shopkeeper "so, how long have you had the new boyfiend?" this was NOT my boau!! and how in the HADES did he know??? proof of gay-dar,much???
"On with the dance! Let joy be unconfined!!" - Lord Byron
thinking about her.
thinking about her.
A vague acquaintance from
A vague acquaintance from music school friended me on FB the other day. I read her profile today and her About Me contained the word "faggy" used about a zillion times (in a "that's so gay" way, nothing even vaguely redeeming about it), so I honesty box'ed her and told her it was insulting.
Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader
Fun Times
We had battle of the sexes at our school on thursday. The senior girls did this dance. Holy hell! I thought my eyes were going to roll outta my head! So so sexy! ;) Probably not the best that I was basically drooling all over myself with my ex sitting next to me. But it was worth it. Lol.
in schoolness
this kid in my class was chucking paper in my (GORGEOUS) friend's hair (mature for a Junior guy. *rolls eyes*) and she turned around and was like, "what is he doing?" to me, and i was told her and she turned back around and he looked over at me and was like, "you are SO gay" and i laughed and said thanks. then i had a moment cause i'm pretty much closeted and he has no idea how funny it really was. =0)
when i'm in seminary (an in-school religion class primarily for mormons but anyone can take it) and people don't know what a butch lesbian is so i try to explain it to the girl sitting next to me and she interrupts, "so if i wear my husband's clothes will i be like, a lesbian?" and i have to try not to laugh or cry or hit her at the same time.
OH THE IGNORANCE!!!!!!!!
Well, I'm rewatching South
Well, I'm rewatching South of Nowhere from the beginning... Pretty damn sure that counts...
Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader
A couple weeks ago when me
A couple weeks ago when me and my girlfriends are looking through the book with all the pix from the Twilight movie and I'm just internally drooling over Alice. Who for the record is majorly ah-dorr-able.
Or when on the bus or at lunch I'm sitting squeezed in with one of my friends thinking about all the spots where we're touching and feeling really guilty whether or not it's one of the friends I've come out to.
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Two wrongs don't make a right but three lefts do!
I agree. Alice is soooo
I agree.
Alice is soooo cute!
^.^
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"When you can't walk you crawl, and when you can't do that you find someone to carry you" ~Firefly
. . .
In Science class we went outside and along the way picked up trash. During that time me, my friend, and another friend made bucketloads of immature jokes, and the gay moment came here:
Friend 1: Yeah, we've had experience going through our parent's closets, looking through their clothes...
Me: Well, I've got experience hiding in my own closet, if you know what I mean.
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My name is not gay;
because I am more than a orientation.
My name is not fag;
because I am more than a whipping post.
My name is not perv;
because I am more than a four-letter word.
Mine would be...
This girl in my Geometry class sitting in the row next to mine, a few seats up, is wearing these short shorts. And I. Cannot. Stop. Staring. No matter how hard I try to pay attention to the lesson, goshdarnit!
I bought this shirt from Hot
I bought this shirt from Hot Topic that says "Rainbows are gay" and it has a stripe of rainbow across it.
My gay moment of the last
My gay moment of the last few days is always thinking about my new girlfriend and how amazing she is. there r not enough words int eh dictionary to explain my love for her. i am completely in love with her and she is the girl of my dreams. love you babe! <3
Love is out there, you just gotta find it, and i have!
When....
My friends and I cruise around listening to boys boys boys by lady gaga and I sing girls girls girls! Its quite fun! Or just when I think of my girlfriend all the time! I love her so much!
labels are for soup cans not people!
At the end of 9th period (us
At the end of 9th period (us history) when I catch myself staring at the Indiana Jones calander...
When my friend can no longer insult me by making gay jokes, wow, and instead tries to make "size" jokes.
When someone sez "ur so gay" or "that's so gay", even if I slip and say it, I think, "yeah, I would know" XD
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"I will call you squishy and you will be mine. You will be my squishy, come here squishy, come here..."
- DORY!!! W00T!!!
listening to hours worth of
listening to hours worth of KD.
and finding her "short nude scene" in Salmonberries super interesting...
but not watching it, for fear of my parents finding out.
not technically a gay moment, but...
in my drama class everyone was doing monologue presentations. We had a spotlight pointed at the performers. Normally those things aren't perticularly flatering, but for some magical unknown reason the one there makes everyone seem REALLY hot
so this guy comes up and performes his thing I go completely brain dead form the epic hotness
and then this girl goes up and it happens again lol
If ever I had a bi moment, it was then :)
My Engish Exam
Today was our big english exam, and I'm shit at english so I knew I was going to fail anyway. But it really didn't help there was the fittest exam moterater I have ever seen. I mean normally they're all old boring men. But today there was this lass in year 20s who was so lovely and happened to be wearing a very short dress. I spent most of the exam starting at her and not writing anything.
We all came out of the exam and everyone was talking about which questions they found hard and stuff. And I was like "Questions? Oh yea the exam!".
Grad Party
When I was playing euchre at a random grad party and couldn't stop starring at my partner. I think she might have noticed but whatever. :) I suck at euchre so I was a terrible partber but it was totally worth it!
Getting really excited over
Getting really excited over the possibility of seeing the Ellen DeGeneres show XD
Wanting to be in the frontrow at the upcoming greenday concert just so I can hold one of them if they crowd surf *drool*
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I'm screaming on the inside,
but I don't care 'cuz I'm laughing on the outside.
So don't you worry about me, I'll be fine,
as long as I have my music and ryme
Kissing my same-sex lady
Kissing my same-sex lady friend
Watching part of the movie
Watching part of the movie "Selena" in Spanish class, and thinking about how hot JLO is...
does
does drooling over megan fox pictures count? of course it does XD.
oh and looking up the L word.
"in true love the smallest distance is too great, yet the greatest distance can be broken."
Umm....
When I borrowed a Tegan And Sara CD from the library. Yeah...I'm really not into folk-or music like theirs ordinarily but I did hear a song on some video I watched, I think on Youtube, that was theirs and I liked the song. But now for the life of me I can't remember what it was called. But it was different than the stuff I immediately think of when I think of T&S.
Once upon a time I ripped the wings from my spine
But when I hide inside your eyes I still pretend that I can fly
Getting excited that I'm
Getting excited that I'm gonna get a hug from a guy friend the next time I see him, lol.
oh, and freaking out about the big gay ice cream truck thing gaynow posted, and having to tell a friend about it...
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I'm screaming on the inside,
but I don't care 'cuz I'm laughing on the outside.
So don't you worry about me, I'll be fine,
as long as I have my music and ryme
Why yes, I am awesome.
Why yes, I am awesome. *bows*
Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader
Being impatient about
Being impatient about watching But I'm a Cheerleader again.
Seeing a few rainbow clouds
Seeing a few rainbow clouds in the sky. Seriously. They were so cool!
Going to my cousin's dance
Going to my cousin's dance recital, since most of the songs that didn't feature cute little kids featured hot teenaged girls wearing bathing suit-type-things with skirts of varying lengths and opacities attached.
They're probably called something else, but I'm too lazy to check what the names are. And that was basically what they were anyway, so.
Watching old episodes of
Watching old episodes of degrassi and seeing Paige and Alex kiss. Good day so far. Lol.
mine was when some woman
mine was when some woman across the street told her kids to stay away from me and she told the whole nieghborhood i was a lesbian and now im not allowed around anyone without them glaring at me or giving me dirty looks
well...
It was when my sister so nicely informed me that I "drink beer like a butch lesbian" and I thought to myself *well she got the lesbian part right* lol. How great is that?
So I went on this trip to
So I went on this trip to Europe for two weeks. I missed my girlfriend soooo much. I couldn't really text her because it cost 50 cents per text. Calling was even more expensive. Thank goodness for the occasional wifi and facebook. As for my gay moment, near the end of the trip, we were visiting some museums in Berlin. After awhile, I realized the art I was actually taking pictures of included almost nothing other than the nude female statues.
And the day after I got back from Europe, I had to leave for college orientation. ;_; I'm having fun, yes, but I want to be with her!
Staring at all the guys I
Staring at all the guys I liked in Six Flags today... *drool*
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Living in a sculpted society has led me to become the unstable psychopath that I am today... (umm...) JOY!!!
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♪Blood blood everywhere, and every drop is there to spare♪
Oops! "Technically"
Oops! "Technically" yesterday lol.
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Living in a sculpted society has led me to become the unstable psychopath that I am today... (umm...) JOY!!!
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♪Blood blood everywhere, and every drop is there to spare♪
Staring at girls in the
Staring at girls in the movie theater while holding my movie meal and 3-D puzzle of a dinosaur. I looked like a four year old so I'm guessing that doesn't fly well with the ladies. Lol. :)
Let's see...
Let's see...
Rewinding and pausing the tv to watch Hayden Panettiere take off her graduation robe off in the commercial for "I Love You, Beth Cooper". Dx Ugh, I'm such a letch! (Still wanna see the movie, though)
Alright, from the point of
Alright, from the point of view of a female which I am biologically, a lesbian moment I guess?
So.
I kissed a girl and I liked it.
That's pretty lesbian. Lolz.
But as a straight man which I consider myself, a gay moment?
Mkay.
I totally walk/talk/use hand movements like a stereotypical gay guy.
I pull off a gay dude better than a straight one.
It's sad.
Bahahhaa.
But yeah,
this girl is wearing clothes that OBVIOUSLY do not match at alll.
So.
I snap my fingers and I'm like "Mmm, honey no. That is an absolute fashion faux pas. I mean, ew, like, seriously. Kay thanks."
^Ftw^
:D
I've got birds in my ears and a devil on my shoulder and a phone to the other and I can't get a hold of her, and what's a crush to do...what's a crush to do when he can't get through?
-Risque by Cute Is What We Aim For
Half Blood Prince made me want to lol
Watching the 3 most recent Harry Potter movies just to look at Emma Watson is pretty gay :)
Do you really think it is weakness that yields to temptation? I tell you that there are terrible temptations which it requires strength, strength and courage to yield to.