too old for Oasis now?

the ghost's picture

I've been thinking since reading Ruby's journal a few days ago about being too old for Oasis, that perhaps I have gotten too old to be on here. I guess the site does say for queer and questioning youth. I'm not really questioning any more or a youth, since I am 23. I am still queer however.

I'm just not sure if it is weird of me to continue to post on here. I do from time to time still need some advice and support on the whole lgbt thing, and for life in general. I'm just not sure if it is elsewhere that I should be posting my woe's.

I joined here when I was about 20, which was probably quite late really in relation to the general age of this site. But it was the age when I really started to confront my sexuality. Since then I have changed a lot, and dealt with a lot of stuff in regard to my sexuality. I guess I'm just wondering if it's time to move on?

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Lehcure's picture

of course not, silly

of course not, silly =P
everyone needs advice sometimes.

Lol-taire's picture

Oh no you don't, I want to

Oh no you don't, I want to know how your story ends up too.

We're both still youth, you know. And anyway, these kids need the benefit of our age and wisdom.

bulldyke's picture

'youth' actually means a

'youth' actually means a young boy, so screw it! you're as young as you feel, and nobody hear cares. and if they do, well, they can take it up with me. :D (that was me, putting the 'bull' in bulldyke)

also, as to moving on? i think that, every so often, about oasis (not because of the age thing). i've been a 'member' for years now, even though i haven't written an here all that time. i just come and go when i need to.

don't worry bout being too old. like lol-taire says, i want to know how your story goes.

Bulldyke
"I've never written a love song, that didn't end in tears." ~P!nk

jeff's picture

Yeah...

No age restrictions here...

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jmy's picture

Who cares about age, its

Who cares about age,
its just a number!!

gaynow's picture

Soon you, too, can join the

Soon you, too, can join the ranks of Oasis' Sketchy Old People(tm)!

I kid, I kid. Stay! Damn right no age restrictions: you've only outgrown the site when you don't need to/feel like coming back here anymore, and then you move on with all our blessings. But don't you dare leave us just 'cause!

Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader

hellonwheels's picture

ur not outta here yet.

not that easily anyway. lol. im too old to be on here by ur standards too, since im a year youngert then you were when you joined. lol.

Mental wounds not healing, driving me insane, i'm goin' off the rails on a crazy train- the ozzman

music is life's picture

Don't leave! Like Lol-taire

Don't leave!
Like Lol-taire said, us "kids" need the benefit of your age and wisdom!

wild-blue-yonder's picture

I'm glad other people are

I'm glad other people are asking this question too... I've been on-and-off with Oasis for four-ish years, I'm 19 now... and I was wondering if I was getting too old also. Guess not yet.

5thstory's picture

No, no way, you're not too

No, no way, you're not too old. Stay here, keep delighting us with your posts :)

" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens

the ghost's picture

Thanks you guys, I feel

Thanks you guys, I feel reassured =]
I'll continue to hang out here!!

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent-Eleanor Roosevelt