This just occurred to me:
my best friend is bi, not out to the general public, still in the process of getting comfortable with herself and her sexuality. I realized that Oasis would be a wonderful place for her. But... this is my place. I love it here, and I want it to be private, with no one I know, where I can just spill my thoughts and not worry who might be reading... if someday I need to write a very private journal entry about her, I don't want her on the site reading it. Argh. So now I feel bad... but I know I won't share this site with her. Someone help me alleviate my guilt?