Sharing Oasis?
This just occurred to me:
my best friend is bi, not out to the general public, still in the process of getting comfortable with herself and her sexuality. I realized that Oasis would be a wonderful place for her. But... this is my place. I love it here, and I want it to be private, with no one I know, where I can just spill my thoughts and not worry who might be reading... if someday I need to write a very private journal entry about her, I don't want her on the site reading it. Argh. So now I feel bad... but I know I won't share this site with her. Someone help me alleviate my guilt?
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You could join The GYC
You could join The GYC (thegyc.com), another online community for LGBT youth, then share that site with her and keep Oasis to yourself. I know that's a bit shady too, but it's the best solution I can think of by way of guilt relief. :)
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or you could not tell her
or you could not tell her your username! 0_0
Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?
You could tell her that your
You could tell her that your username is mine and we can play a joke on her.
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i TOTALLY know how you feel.
i TOTALLY know how you feel. someone i know is on here, who i really don't want, and it's horrible.
advice? i like pat's idea, to find another gay site, like this, and share it with your friend.
don't feel bad about wanting to keep oasis to yourself. that's totally normal...or, at least, i hope it is.
*hug*
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