NewOne
hey hey.
i'm new to this site.
well...i have so many things to say and so , so many questions.
first, lemme say, im a lesbian, came out to my parents a few years ago. it was the hardest thing ive ever had to do. anyways, i live in a safe enviroment but things are horrible with my parents and we fight and yell at each other all the time. does anyone know of any good ways to mentally keep strong?
when i came out to them, they made me feel bad for being gay. as if its something i shouldnt be.
anyway...theres something else, ...for a while, ive had these realy weird urges , and as all my friends are strait, nobody gets them...these urges are for me to be a boy. but i dont want to completely be a boy. just some parts of me. so, i want to maybe change my name to a guy's name (right now its sofia) . anyone have any sugestions?
please right back! i want to know that other people are out there and im not spillin my guts to a computer for no reason.
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Hi
Welcome I do have some advice for you well actually a story i am too a lesbian and am in college and am the pres of our campus GLBTQ group....when i have more time i will re comment with the story but people are listening and supportive
Mothers, tell your children: be quick, you must be strong. Life is full of wonder, love is never wrong. Remember how they taught you, how much of it was fear. Refuse to hand it down - the legacy stops here. ~Melissa Etheridge, "Silent Legacy," Yes I A
hi back
Thanks.
also...does anyone have any ideas for guys names?
i sent you a private msg
please reply so i know you got it
Mothers, tell your children: be quick, you must be strong. Life is full of wonder, love is never wrong. Remember how they taught you, how much of it was fear. Refuse to hand it down - the legacy stops here. ~Melissa Etheridge, "Silent Legacy," Yes I A
hey
yup, i got it. thanks.
melissa etheridge was in ...hmm...the ale gore movie?
melissa the singer Mothers,
melissa the singer
Mothers, tell your children: be quick, you must be strong. Life is full of wonder, love is never wrong. Remember how they taught you, how much of it was fear. Refuse to hand it down - the legacy stops here. ~Melissa Etheridge, "Silent Legacy," Yes I A
yup
yup thought so.
question for everyone...whos your favorite gay actor/actress? i personally love ellen....she's hilarious.
Randy Harrison. Your name
Randy Harrison.
Your name should be Tristan.
My favorite gay actor is the
My favorite gay actor is the dude who played mark in RENT
(\/) I can haz cookie?
(O.o)
(>o<)
Umm...
Anthony Rapp.
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hmmm
Yeah. Tristan's a good one.
This is what I'm deciding on so far...tell me what you think....Mason, Caleb, Gabe, Eli...
another question...are there any acctors/actresses you wish were gay / lesbian?
i think i know my answer.... emmanuelle chriqui. she is SO AMAZINGLY HOTT!!! (look her up on imdb.com)
Ely (different spelling) is
Ely (different spelling) is an pretty important character in my trilogy. I love that name.
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Ely
How is that pronounced.... (ee-lie) or (eh-lee)?