day two
so today is my second day on the site and already i'm addicted. i don't know much of what to say on here. just thought i'd drop a line...hmm...
today's so far been better than yesterday, that is, my parents aren't nagging me and i have the whole day to myself. so thats definitely a positive sign. anyway, the same things are still on my mind today as they were yesterday...me being a boy/girl, among other things.
well, if anyone else here is struggling with gender identity, i'd love for you to either message me or comment on this. i've had some issues come of this.
anyway, i should go watch some of Ellen . I'll be back in a bit.
oh, and another question...(random), but maybe patnelsonchilds will like this because of the whole history bit. anyways, in the constitution, when it provides for equality, does it include sexual orientation?
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Well, I'm not struggling
Well, I'm not struggling with gender identity, but I used to be. Because I was in denial for like, ever. I was scared of what it meant to be trans, so I tried to pretend I wasn't. Now instead I'm just trying my hardest to be patient with this whole transitioning thing.
But um, for figuring out gender identity, I guess it's just best to be patient with yourself, and don't hold any expectations for yourself. Try to consider what you're comfortable with and what you're not. Like if it bothers you to be called things like "young lady" or if you're comfortable with your body and stuff. And also, just because you don't identify as a girl doesn't mean you have to be a boy, or that you want to transition or any of that, that's all up to you and how you feel about it and what you want to do about it.