Should I come out to my sister?
Should I come out to my sister? I love her lots, and there's much less distance between us like with the rest of my family, but I can feel it growing, and I don't like it. Also I think she could help me if I ever decide to come out to Mum and Da. (not that I ever will unless my sister is absolutely sure they' won't eat me alive.) She's the only sibling who really understands me and she's always nice to me and tells me its gonna be okay when Mum is really mean to me.
Help me decide Oasis, I'm counting on you!
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Is she older or
Is she older or younger?
Doesn't make any difference, but you reminded me of my little brother for a minute.
Tell her.
You won't get any other advice on here. The advice is always 'tell them'. Which sometimes I think it's wrong, but in this case:
Tell her. And Good Luck!
She's three years older.
She's three years older. Thanks.
how much do you trust her?
how much do you trust her? because my sister sometimes lets stuff slip when shes super mad at me, which is like half the time.
"I feel like Nacy Drew in the mystery of the midlife crisis."
-Roger Bannister
The Stepford Wives
Tell her. It'll give you an
Tell her. It'll give you an ally, it'll get it off your chest, it'll bring you two closer together... unless you've got a substantial reason not to (disownment, extreme homophobia), do it do it do it.
Megan: "Cheers are supposed to be simple, make people feel good."
Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
-But I'm a Cheerleader
The way you describe her
The way you describe her makes her sound like a good person to tell. If for any reason you don't fully trust her, then think about waiting. But otherwise, yes, go ahead and tell her.
~~~ the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses ~ e e cummings ~~~