I'm not sure how common this is, but my mom asked me if the people at my college were 'accepting'. It was a little weird because my college is a notorious 'dyke factory,' but she meant well and was just attempting to express concern for my safety or something....anyway....
I've totally had people ask me questions, but I really can't think of any now other than the usual ones about 'when did you know?' 'do your parents know?' and etc. and of course there are always those 'you know it's wrong in the eyes of God?' question/statements, but I haven't gotten any of those in a while.
"do you use strap-ons?"
[the answer is no, i never have. but i'm sure i'll try them out one day].
"do your parents/family know?"
[yes, my parents know, and so does one of my sisters and one of my aunts. at this point, i don't think it's important for the rest of my family to know that i'm bisexual. but if i ever get into a serious relationship with a girl, i will tell them].
"are you into girls who are butch or femme?"
[femme].
my favorite question to get is "So how do you know if another girl is gay?"
Because then I can say "Well, i Just flash the secret lesbian hand signal."
And the person's eyes will get all BIG and they BELIEVE ME and it's AWESOME.
Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?
Thats to funny! I wish I could list all the questions I've been asked but I can't think of any. ug I'm sorry. Or maybe I just dont feel like thinking about it right now. I'm happy to say I have never gotten the "it's wrong in the eyes of God speach." and if I ever do-and I'm brave enough, which I probably wont be-I'll just tell them I'm wiccan. Or you know that I don't belive in "there god"
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Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by
my personal favorite is: "How did you know you were gay?"
usually i just respond: "Well, how did you know you were straight?"
but one of these days, i'm just going to say, "Ellen Degeneres, Melissa Etheridge, and (insert random celesbian here) came to me in a dream and told me so."
"She's Trouble with a capital T, that rhymes with P, that stands for Pussy."
i love when girls or other people point at a girl and ask me if i like them, yes Im bi and like girls but im not attracted to EVERY girl!
"I know you can be OVERwhelmed and I know you can be UNDERwhelmed but can you just be Whelmed???
I think you can in Euorope"
-10 things i hate about you!
my friend just don't get it! they think that being homosexual is roughly equivolent to being from pluto! and although some are accepting the majority are acting like total jack-asses. most of my friends now are totally cool with the fact that i'm a member of the Lavender 'Lliance (AKA the gay-bi-lesbian-and-transexual comunity.)
i had a mate who quite literally didn't know HOW a man and a man could have sex, so i spared him no detail
one asked me in company who i thought was the hottest of the guys in the room, all others being straight. i said none of them are hot, which was true....my ex friends are ugly, hmm, i dont' find most straight guys hot....i love a little bit of "gayness" in a boy, straighties dont' really have what i look for.
hmm, i was asked several times if it had anything to do with me going to art school....like did i catch it there...
My favourite is "When will you just accept you're a girl?"
Then come:
"Wait...you're a girl, who is a guy, who likes guys. Doesn't that make you straight?"
[no, that makes me GAY. Did you miss the man-on-man-action-involving-me bit?]
"When did you realize this?"
[Is it any of your business? I mean, when did you know you were straight?]
"Your name is NATE? You know that's a boy's name, right?"
[Yes, and seeing as I'm a BOY, that makes sense now doesn't it?]
"Do you use the boy's bathroom?"
[Do you use the *insert asker's gender here* bathroom?]
"You know you only want to be a boy so you can like girls."
[Actually, no. I AM a boy, and I like men, thank you.]
People ask the most ridiculous things. There are more, but I certainly can't remember.
well when i came out back in 9th grade one of my best friends just goes 'well your only in 9th grade, how can you possibly know.' in which case i looked at her and went 'well your only in 9th grade, how can you possibly know your straight?'. she shut up
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I'm not sure how common this
I'm not sure how common this is, but my mom asked me if the people at my college were 'accepting'. It was a little weird because my college is a notorious 'dyke factory,' but she meant well and was just attempting to express concern for my safety or something....anyway....
I've totally had people ask me questions, but I really can't think of any now other than the usual ones about 'when did you know?' 'do your parents know?' and etc. and of course there are always those 'you know it's wrong in the eyes of God?' question/statements, but I haven't gotten any of those in a while.
some of the questions i've been asked multiple times:
"do you use strap-ons?"
[the answer is no, i never have. but i'm sure i'll try them out one day].
"do your parents/family know?"
[yes, my parents know, and so does one of my sisters and one of my aunts. at this point, i don't think it's important for the rest of my family to know that i'm bisexual. but if i ever get into a serious relationship with a girl, i will tell them].
"are you into girls who are butch or femme?"
[femme].
the one question i hate
Why?
and another one but it doesnt bother me how did you figure it out
“In order to meet the challenge, you have to have that support,”
Jackie Joyner-Kersee
MEOW
my bestie asked me if i like to stir the chocolate?
so...you don't like girls? but everyone likes girls?
are you sure!?
are you sure!?
how do you know?!
are you sure!?
how can anyone like boys?
how is a guy and a guy meant to work?
are you the female or male?
are you sure!?
sooo
They get a bit awkward for like 3 seconds, but it passes and then they ask when I found out or felt different.
sooo
They get a bit awkward for like 3 seconds, but it passes and then they ask when I found out or felt different.
my favorite question to get
my favorite question to get is "So how do you know if another girl is gay?"
Because then I can say "Well, i Just flash the secret lesbian hand signal."
And the person's eyes will get all BIG and they BELIEVE ME and it's AWESOME.
Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?
Thats to funny! I wish I
Thats to funny! I wish I could list all the questions I've been asked but I can't think of any. ug I'm sorry. Or maybe I just dont feel like thinking about it right now. I'm happy to say I have never gotten the "it's wrong in the eyes of God speach." and if I ever do-and I'm brave enough, which I probably wont be-I'll just tell them I'm wiccan. Or you know that I don't belive in "there god"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by
my personal favorite is:
my personal favorite is: "How did you know you were gay?"
usually i just respond: "Well, how did you know you were straight?"
but one of these days, i'm just going to say, "Ellen Degeneres, Melissa Etheridge, and (insert random celesbian here) came to me in a dream and told me so."
"She's Trouble with a capital T, that rhymes with P, that stands for Pussy."
I get the
how did you know question, and pretty much by every straight girl over the summer, the question of how girls have sex. I'll show you, honey!
No one has a right to sit down and feel hopeless; there is too much work to do.--Dorothy Day
oh heres another fun question
i love when girls or other people point at a girl and ask me if i like them, yes Im bi and like girls but im not attracted to EVERY girl!
"I know you can be OVERwhelmed and I know you can be UNDERwhelmed but can you just be Whelmed???
I think you can in Euorope"
-10 things i hate about you!
My friend asked me if
My friend asked me if lesbians thought if she was hot or not. Like I could speak for the entire population of lesbians because I am one.
queer queries!
my friend just don't get it! they think that being homosexual is roughly equivolent to being from pluto! and although some are accepting the majority are acting like total jack-asses. most of my friends now are totally cool with the fact that i'm a member of the Lavender 'Lliance (AKA the gay-bi-lesbian-and-transexual comunity.)
meow
i had a mate who quite literally didn't know HOW a man and a man could have sex, so i spared him no detail
one asked me in company who i thought was the hottest of the guys in the room, all others being straight. i said none of them are hot, which was true....my ex friends are ugly, hmm, i dont' find most straight guys hot....i love a little bit of "gayness" in a boy, straighties dont' really have what i look for.
hmm, i was asked several times if it had anything to do with me going to art school....like did i catch it there...
Let's See...
My favourite is "When will you just accept you're a girl?"
Then come:
"Wait...you're a girl, who is a guy, who likes guys. Doesn't that make you straight?"
[no, that makes me GAY. Did you miss the man-on-man-action-involving-me bit?]
"When did you realize this?"
[Is it any of your business? I mean, when did you know you were straight?]
"Your name is NATE? You know that's a boy's name, right?"
[Yes, and seeing as I'm a BOY, that makes sense now doesn't it?]
"Do you use the boy's bathroom?"
[Do you use the *insert asker's gender here* bathroom?]
"You know you only want to be a boy so you can like girls."
[Actually, no. I AM a boy, and I like men, thank you.]
People ask the most ridiculous things. There are more, but I certainly can't remember.
well when i came out back in
well when i came out back in 9th grade one of my best friends just goes 'well your only in 9th grade, how can you possibly know.' in which case i looked at her and went 'well your only in 9th grade, how can you possibly know your straight?'. she shut up