congradulations on coming out to yourself! *hug* you're my hero today, cause there are so many people who can't come to terms with themselves, so good for you!

i'm sorry about Baby though (lol). that does suck. especially cause by backing off, you're doing the right thing...but it hurts like hell. *hug*

hang in there! i know from experience with unattainable loves that eventually they do pass...it just might seem like an eternity until they do. i hope it works out alright!

Bulldyke
"this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart" e.e. cummings

yeah i've heard a lot gay people saying they're bi just so it makes them less guilty, look what the society's "normal" standards have done to us! It's great that you are trying to come to terms with it!
LOL baby is such a sweet name, and it's very nice of you to think for her at her own good, that's what true love is about. =D at least you could still be friend with her, i guess.

I think that maybe baby doesn't have it so easy either. I mean you say she has fallen for someone else, but still talks to you right? Maybe this is as hard for her as it is for you, she's in love with one but is attracted by the other..hmm must be a hard situation. I agree that maybe you should play it by ear and see what happens, not saying that the future aholds great romantic connections between you both, but you shouldnt completely shun out the idea of being friends... you should try to take things from her perspective...

-Always lezzy ;)

I love the band U2... anyway, good luck with the Baby situation. I would give you advice but I'm quite, quite clueless. Good for you on coming to terms with it all.