What Would You Do If (S)He Sang Out Of Tune...
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OKay, so the title has little to do with this. It does...kind of...make sense, but hey, I like using song lyrics.
So this is a question for gay men.
Would you date an FTM who hadn't gotten 'bottom' surgery? Just innocent dating, it doesn't have to be anything physical beyond like, a hug.
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Hmm...
I can't imagine I would. Doesn't quite seem like a gay relationship to me if you're having straight sex, no?
But the whole point of dating is progress, no? Not sure what innocent dating is... you could have an innocent first date, second date, etc., but at some point... so, seems a qualifier just to get more 'yeah' responses, no?
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Umm, just thought I outta
Umm, just thought I outta mention I (And I'm sure plenty of other FTMs) wouldn't let anyone shove anything up there anyways. Not the va-jay-jay that is. So you probably wouldn't be having straight sex.
My two cents on that. >_>;
Hmm...
So, I'm confused.. how are you planning to have orgasms if your partner has to pretend it isn't there? Or is the clit OK, just no penetration?
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Yeah basically. Penetration
Yeah basically. Penetration would be gross. And the clit is more than enough really. XD;
My thoughts exactly!
My thoughts exactly!
Hmm...
OK, I thought the clit might be off-limits, too, since, well, it is a girl-part.
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Well, for me there would be
Well, for me there would be no sex at all...
But yes, innocent dating is very much possible. My friends Courtney and Charlie are both asexual, and they're dating. It's nice to just have someone there to talk to, to be just a bit more than a friend. I mean, I have really close friends who I can talk to about a lot of things, but there are some things that I'd have to be a LOT closer to them to talk about. You know?
Err...
Yeah, I'd skip asexual dating altogether, way before you even get to the trans issue.
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For me it's more of, I'd
For me it's more of, I'd have to trust someone a WHOLE LOT. And we'd have to have been together for a while, and they'd have to understand that I am NOT a girl and I can't stand to be "handled" like one. Basically. But yeah, I wouldn't mind no sex at all though. Although once I'm on hormones I'm not sure how true that'll stay. XD; Testosterone kind of does that to guys.
Annnd I'm not really comfortable with what's down there. So Pshh. I dunno. Besides, as you said, there's a lot more to a relationship than sex.
Well, I'm pansexual (leans
Well, I'm pansexual (leans towards males recently.) so I'm not sure how much I count. But I would, definitely.
And I want input on this too. Because I wanna know if there's any chance for me whatsoever. XD;;;
Not sure if I count. But I'm
Not sure if I count. But I'm lesbian, and would date an MTF who hadn't gotten surgery.
"When the people begin to reason, all is lost" - Voltaire