I Like My Friend?

Toph's picture

Whoa, it's been a long time since I've been here. It's pretty much the same though, which I like.

Anyway, I have issues. (I'm bisexual, btw). I hang out with a bunch of guys, and they're all my friends. I really care for them as my buddies and I know they consider me their friend. My issues is that I like one of the guys. It's different though because last year I lived with all the guys in the dorm. The guy I like is the friend of one of the guys that decided to live on our floor in the dorms. So I really like him and he's really nice and sweet. My problem? Well, actually there's two. One is that I don't know how to approach him about all this, and if I even should. Second of all, he thinks I'm lesbian. They all do. Uh-oh.

Please help you guys. I recognize some of you, like Loltaire, Riku, and Ruby still hanging out around here. Help me out! XD

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Neutrina's picture

You probably want to correct

You probably want to correct their impression that you're lesbian. Easy enough. Point out some guy as attractive, be totally casual about it.

Then you probably want to test the waters. Flirt a little, and once he knows you like guys it shouldn't be too hard to recognize it for what it is.
If he's interested, go for it. If you can't tell...well, straightforward is probably a good way to go.

"When the people begin to reason, all is lost" - Voltaire

Riku's picture

I agree with Neutrina on

I agree with Neutrina on this one. I wish I could come up with something to add too it but I don't know anything about this stuff. XD;

Welcome back. :)