Hi. Today I am in Touch With the Sociopath in Me.
:)
Seriously. I thought 'well, how can I get rid of him?'. He is a phantom from the past, who planned to haunt me with accusations of horrible things. He said he 'only wants our friendship back'. Yeah sure (sarcasm).
Now, I though later, how can get rid of him without antagonising him? Obviously, making him drift away. If he decided he don't wanna be my friend any more, because I have become a horrible person, who's to blame for the failed friendship but him?
And then, a tiny little voice on the back of my voice said 'hey, back here is the product of a privileged childhood with very spoiling parents, maids, drivers, and very little conscience'. Why not? I mean, I could use being a sociopath for a while. So, I switched to my sociopath mode, and one MSN conversation later he got completely scared.
Lying, manipulating, and being a complete arsehole can be a lot of fun if your conscience can be switched off for a while!
I was missing the sociopath in me. Now, I'm gonna hug myself and gloat in my awesomeness. Then I'll dominate the world and everything in it :)
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I'm pretty sure that using
I'm pretty sure that using this style to deal with a problem is something they don't recommend...
Hahaha. I'm a trained
Hahaha. I'm a trained conflict-solver, and not even evasion would've worked in this case. You see, I needed him to go away because he thought he wanted to go away. I know he can't stand hypocrites, liars, conniving manipulators who are not to be trusted.... and what is a sociopath but THAT combined with impatience, charm, and a little sadism. It worked soooo fine.
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
which leads me to the
which leads me to the conclusion: manipulation and dishonesty are on of your primary qualities.
You should tell the person straight up; that is the least you can do.
Honesty is the most desired thing in the world. Being dishonest is man's greatest folly. Entire civilizations have been destroyed by a lie and people live's have been ruined by a single perjury.
Oh. I did tell him. Five
Oh. I did tell him. Five times. He just didn't want to understand (or did, and felt like he didn't).
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
meh, I guess you aren't a
meh, I guess you aren't a controlling bitch after all. You just have a quasi-stalker.
He took pics of me from his
He took pics of me from his car. I heard he went to a psychiatrist for a couple years after something. He's really obsessive. I mean, if someone says to you
"I don't want to be your friend. I know you're obsessed with what happened back then, but I'm not your friend now, and I don't want to be your friend-never. If I stopped talking to you, it was my choice, and I feel it was good, since, sincerely, you are scary, obsessive, and boring."
he called me the next day to ask me out for a coffee. He had it coming :)
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
Sounds like what you did was
Sounds like what you did was justified-I know thats no where near the real spelling-I hate when friendships die like that. I went through a similar thing but I really don't want to go into all that. Funny how its always all YOUR falt isn't it? Its all about how you were the awful friend and what you did wrong,then again I'm just as blamfull for that as the next person but I wasn't the one to start it. Why can't we just say; WE BOTH SCREWD UP? but thats never the case is it? Sometimes friendships are just...messed. But then we get over it and make new friends so heres hope you do the same.
Good luck
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Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by
Justified is, actually, the
Justified is, actually, the correct spelling. :)
OMG. You understand! it was -of course!- my fault. All the time, and everything was my fault. Now, that was like 3 ago (or four?)... and I didn't talk to him in that time. He just showed up last week, out of the blue (somehow, he managed to get my number), and he cam back like a phantom of the past with an obsessive disorder*.
You can't imagine how glad it makes me that someone understands how it is when a friendship messes up like that.
*Apparently, that was my fault as well. It's almost comic when taken this far, isn't it?
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
Whatd you do wrong? Cuz
Whatd you do wrong?
Cuz apparently I was to clingly, never gave her enough space and then there was the whole thing thrown in my face-repeatidly I might add-of what a *witch* I had become and how I never knew what friendship was and I admit I did things wrong but...
It's hard when two people are completly different, one clingy and despret for attention and another is standoffish and unemotional.
What was stupid was I never made any other friends because I though she would think I was leaving her, yeah that became my downfall.
Peice of advice, always have a backup plan
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Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by
I was rude, detached, cold,
I was rude, detached, cold, uninterested, and I had a tendency to think he sucked. That's what he says, anyway. And he got jealous because he wasn't my best friend while I was his (isn't that supposed to be mutual?), and he was always trying to make me stop talking to my friends...and then something happened and that was what made me stop talking to him.
" . . . The sun does not shine upon this fair earth to meet frowning eyes, depend upon it." Charles Dickens
Thats kinda what my friend
Thats kinda what my friend was like. If I had gone two days without seeing her I was paceing about my house. But guess what came out of it? This is both a good thing and a bad thing. I'm not like that anymore. I no longer need people constantly. And yet at the sametime I no longer know how to...idk engage with people.
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Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by