ppfffttt. GAY.

milk-tea's picture

hey oasis, i actually have something gay to talk about now.
i have this sorta girlfriend.
mhmm. one of those.
shes amazingly gorgeous.
she's passionate, loving, caring, a little crazy.
i love her.
we both agreed that we had feelings for each other
and, we would "see how it goes."
we didnt see each other for a little over a month,
until yesterday.
we hung out, it was a blast, i slept over at her house.
but NOTHING. HAPPENED.
okay, we cuddled and sort of held hands and semi slept on top of each other.
but.
neither of us initiated a kiss, not really.
i hope this is out of fear? and not her changing her mind.
shes one of my best friends.
i cant lose her.
but i really, really want her.
She. Is. A. Stone. Fox.

and i dont know what to do.
should i just get my act together and grab her by her neck,
kiss her?

haaaaaaaalp.

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coracle's picture

If you really like her, then

If you really like her, then find a nice, secluded, romantic spot, grab her by the neck, and kiss her. If you were afraid, then maybe she was too. Maybe you're both waiting for the other person to make the first move. I was afraid before my first kiss. Actually, we stood there and stared at each other for at least fifteen minutes, both of us wanting to but afraid to make the first move. My advice: don't think, just do.

jeff's picture

Eh...

No need to make plans. Next time you're together, if there's a moment where you feel like kissing her, just do it. She may be waiting for you and you're waiting for her.

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