Journaling for the comments

ACCgirl's picture

I think everyone here journals for the comments. What’s the point in posting, if not? We could all save these little entries in a Word document in some hidden folder on our computers if we didn’t want people to read them, like them, say something about them. I don’t know; it’s possible this is a projection, but this time I really don’t think so.

So what becomes of a journal deferred? That is, what happens to an entry that passes through the “Recent journal entries” list and is dumped into the “My Journal” page, commentless? Most of us probably regard that entry as a silly mistake. “Damn it,” we say. “Why did I post it? Now it’s just sitting there, all naked and stupid.” When really no one notices if one or two or even eight of your entries don’t have comments on them because everyone’s waiting for their own entries to collect its comments. It’s something I used to worry about though, I think, when I was posting regularly like three or four years ago. Well I don’t know if I was ever posting regularly. I’ve never quite fit it in online communities; oddly, I find the real life ones more comfortable.

Jeff’s interview with David Sedaris really rekindled my interest in him. I had only read “Me Talk Pretty One Day,” but now intend to zoom through all of his books, ending with the most recent. Why not? He’s a literary-comedic talent (despite his popularity), and I’m very fond of his quaint style.

Well, time for some late night ice cream. I’ve unintentionally lost like 25 lbs from being a bit sick the past few months, and I intend to get at least a small portion of it back now that my appetite is full swing. Hello, Reese's Peanut Butter Cup Blizzard. It’s a pleasure to eat you.

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niks121997's picture

Hey

Quite frankly I'm surprised whenever one of my journals receives a comment because I've never been fixated on them. I mean, at first it was lovely- to feel welcome and included in the community, to comment on others entries and be pleasantly surprised whenever the action was reciprocated. And now, years later when I'm on the fringe of the community with my sporadic posts, comments are definitely not expected especially since I'm here but not really here. I write more to see where I've been, long repetitive entries about the steps that have made me who I am today; ironically my last post was my attempt to figure out why I'm still here. Shrug.

I have a point somewhere but am too tired to coherently articulate it. Sleep beckons.

Sorry to hear that you were sick, but I do hope you enjoyed your Blizzard. :)

"Life's under no obligation to give us what we expect. We take what we get and are thankful that it is no worse than it is."

"All that we see or seem is but a dream within a dream."

Neutrina's picture

I'd expect that your

I'd expect that your journals are read, even if not commented on.
But yeah, comments are nice. Though, really, it's kind of like venting sometimes, where you just need to get it out to a listening ear (listening eye?)

"She's a mystery
She's too much for me
But I keep coming back for more
She's just the girl I'm looking for"
-The Click Five "Just the Girl"

fatefellshort's picture

I was thinking about that

I was thinking about that too. For some reason its easier to keep up with an online journal than a real journal for me. Maybe compassionate people reading has something to do with it? I dunno. I kinda wish there was a way to make certain entries, but not all, private though.

edit: and it feels better talking to a real person somewhere than to a blank word document. IMO

Splash's picture

I have a separate, private

I have a separate, private journal, so I guess I fit in the “journal for the comments” group. If I do post something it's often because I want someone else's thoughts on it, or want other people to be aware of it. If I'm just ruminating, blowing off steam, or talking about what happened today, it probably goes in the private journal.

~~~ the voice of your eyes is deeper than all roses ~ e e cummings ~~~