I think I want Her...
She's so vibrant yet composed! The way she talks...well,more like types.
The thing is,i met her over Facebook. She's Bisexual too and is a senior at school. So i personal msg'd her on Facebook itself. Its been 5 days and we already have exchanged 10 msg's! And that too,really long one's! She's briliant...if nothing of that sort happens,we can definetly be best friends[yes,we got along SO well].
Im already imagining us going out and being this out and proud couple.
And giving quick pecks to each other every now and then...
*sigh* Am i thinking a bit too much too soon?
I guess so.But she makes me feel that way! Ok,so we havnt flirted or amything till now.Our convo's consist of random topics...general stuff about her and me...about sexuality...its cool.Im planning to get her number in some days and then take our relationship to next level. =D
Plus she's pretty cute too!...now your wondering what about D,right?
Well,techically,its over from my side. We are just so dead and boring together.I made her see that...plus even our 2 years friendship is on the rocks.Actually more like dying away...we just dont get along anymore.And no,we dont fight or anything.we just CANT have a decent conversation with each other.Earlier[arnd a year back]our phone convo's used to last for 2 hours! And now? Hardly 30 mins. We cant seem to find anything to talk about. I try really hard...i LOVE talking.But she's not comprehending with me! What am i supposed to do?! Im just letting it go...and besides,i never really liked her in "that" way.Anyway,more on this in the next entry or sumthng.
I have to do somethng about this new cute chick. Lets name her A,ok?
And the best part is,she's mad about The L word too!! We have these random conversations on it...ahh,so cool.
Im so looking forward to it all! XD
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The best hope something like this has is to meet in person ASAP. Otherwise, you start building a mental image of who she is, and falling for that projection. She does the same, and then when you finally meet, the reality doesn't live up to your projection (After all, who wouldn't make their projections perfect?). It seems a bit ridiculous, but true. Also, don't start having sexual conversations online, same story. You'll feel compelled to deliver on the sex when you meet that way.
The most important thing in any relationship is chemistry. And, until you meet, you don't *really* know if you have it. Again, because her e-mails and such are filtered through your projection of her. So, the sooner you meet, the better your odds.
Of course, like I said, it's all chemistry. When you meet, you'll have it or not. You can't wish for it, want it, build it, or anything else. It exists or doesn't. So, there's also no worry if you meet and it isn't there, just means you're friends and not going to be romantic. The potential downside is if one of you feels chemistry, and the other doesn't.
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