I don't know if I should...
Should I call him on Monday after he's out of classes?
He's made the last two phone calls, albeit just to say hey. I feel like I need to make a move and call him because I feel like I'm losing him.
There's not to many people I've ever felt as close as I have to him so I want to hold onto it. Hell if I call him I don't even know what well do, there's no plan. that makes me feel bad. Has anyone ever heard that the TRUE test of friendship lies in the ability to just do nothing together? I wonder what happened to that between us.
I think were finally starting to drift away and I just don't know what to do about it...I seek advice.
I feel like I need a hug from him, I know it sounds totally corny but one little hug of friendship, nothing more. It would say exactly what I need it to say: everything is ok. That's all I want. I don't care how long we are apart as long as I know that we are on good terms with each other. Part of me, after all, is still concerned that he has some inner issues about my coming out to him. He never tells me about them though so I guess it would be best just to not think about it...right?
I should probably quit thinking about it right now....I hope to hear from anyone.
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hey dude!
I think you should give him a call.Say hey and ask if he wants to meet up next week to do something...a movie,get food...something like that.Whatever you guys would have normally done when hanging out.Have something in mind before you ring him so the plan isn't so vague as just saying do something and pick a day.
Then don't put to much emphasis on it.Just go enjoy hanging out with him.
Talk to you later dude if you're around.
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Well..
I don't think chemistry is supposed to be this hard.
It isn't a combination lock, so there's no special sequence where this will work or not. He either wants you or he doesn't. So, you're not changing his mind here, just finding out what's on it.
Sounds like your projection of your relationship is a lot better than the reality.
Of course, the best advice is to not put all your hopes into one person who seems to be flaky/disinterested. Keep your options open, play the field, look around...
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