I am stressed to the maximum.My exams are going terribly.It's not all doom and gloom though because I can repeat them in August,so it isn't as if everything is lost.But it seems as though everyone around me thinks it is.Well actually not everyone.Just my family.

My exams seems to be the business of Mam,Dad, my sister and brother.Each one of them has a different take on them and what I am doing, and I honestly wish they would just mind their own business.It is nice that they care to call and ask how they are going,but I don't really want their input or two cents on them.They aren't helping.I politly told them so and they preceeded to lecture me anyways.So I then told them more clearly to just leave me alone.But it has no been turned into the latest family debate/hot topic.

My sister and brother generally don't get along,but they have united over this to blame my mother for my current situation for making me work too many hours at my job.They also call me multiple times a day to see how things are.After which I always feel terrible because they go on and on over the exams and force me to analyze them.My mam has said it's ok if I do bad that she knows I will do whatever I have to, to get myself sorted and has been incredibly nice to me.Which I can't help but feel is a knee jerk reaction to my brother and sister upsetting me so much.They are against her so she needs me on her side.Then there is my dad.He stays quiet much of the time but leans towards my bro and sisters opinion on things.

It feels like there is a power struggle going on around me for my life.Everyone thinks they know best and I want their help.Everyone has completely overlooked the fact I am an adult,I can sort out my own stuff, and I have asked for nobodies help or opinion.

As the youngest in the family am I doomed to this type of behaviour because evryone forgot I grew up?