Dreams..

sun_also_rises's picture

I've always thought dreams were significant to a person's unconscious thoughts and emotions but that its very hard to figure out someone else's dream because they are so personal.

So i had a dream. I can't really remember much except one scene that really stood out for me. Ok so (it's a little retard) I'm in cabin or some type of house and in a room with bunk-beds. I am on the bottom bunk and this girl is on the top, who had golden skin, like a light gold. It is also freezing in the room. We are covered in thin blankets yet both of us are cold, for some reason, though I can't tell, i know we are both naked, but at one point I do see her boobs. At another point she asks if she can lay with me because its cold, I say yes and then try to make out with her, but she stops me.

Now i don't remember the rest of the dream but do know it involved looking for this girl I kind of like.

i got this from a dream dictionary:

Bunk beds=To see bunk beds in your dream, represents childhood and innocence. Alternatively, it may refer to diverging and conflicting views of sexuality. You may have difficulties expressing your needs and desires.

cold=To dream that you are cold, indicates that you are experiencing a breakthrough in some area in your life. Alternatively, you may be feeling isolated. You sense of coldness could reflect your feelings about that person. The dream may also occur as a result of your immediate environment in which you are really feeling cold.

breasts=To see breasts in your dream, symbolizes primal nourishment and your need to be nursed and care for. It represent motherhood, nurturance, and infantile dependency. Alternatively, breasts represents sexual arousal and raw energy

gold skin=The golden color reflects your spiritual rewards, richness, refinement and enhancement of your surroundings.

Ok so I have been questioning my sexuality again as to whether I'm gay bi or even freaking straight. god questioning sucks so much, especially when you thought you were over and one with it.

bunk-beds then makes sense but I don't really understand what the rest of the dream means. See she doesn't let me kiss her, and cold means a breakthrough of some sorts but is it that I'm defiantly a lesbian or that I'm not? I can't be sure. Or alternatively -- bunk-beds also mean unable to express desires so does it just mean that I'm frustrated by the fact that I am not "out enough" and because of this feel isolated?
Anyone have any other idea?

OOO and I'm not deciding my whole sexual orientation based on a dream, just something to ponder about my subconscious.

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whateversexual_llama's picture

hm, doesn't sound like

hm, doesn't sound like you're judging yourself based on a dream... it sounds like your dream is just giving you an excuse to ask the questions that are weighing on you.

Be yourself. 'Cause if you're busy being somebody else, who's gonna be you?

thinks's picture

Nice...

Your dream sounds nice, in my opinion, I wouldn't be worried to much about it. I'm wondering if you can tell me where you got your information about it?

You've inspired me to share information about my most recent, vivid dream, even though it appears to be just a jumble of understandable information.

Thanks!

sun_also_rises's picture

yeah no problem!! well i

yeah no problem!! well i bought a book from barnes and nobel but a great sight is http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

it has almost everything.

Fiona Rosge's picture

i seriously have no clue on

i seriously have no clue on this one sorry.
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Come Josephine in my flying machine
Going up she goes up she goes
Balance yourself like a bird on a beam
In the air she goes there she goes
Up, up, a little bit higher
Oh, my, the moon is on fire
Good-by