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wheels148's picture

hi all,
There is a certain amount of isolation that comes from living life on wheels instead of feet. The chair has become an extenison of self over the years so much so that some who didnt know my name in school would refer to me as the kid in the chair...
that is just some back ground into my life i am not writing this for a pity party to feel sorry for "wheels148" I am merely writing this because for years I have researched the possibility of getting a service dog. you see my current manual chair's configuration prevents me from being able to pick stuff up off the floor i struggle with other stuff that I care not to mention at this time but mom thinks i am far to independant to require one so i am like in a jam untill i move out I guess. I wish I could get a working dog because it would open up my world socially
any ideas on convincing my family

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Inkblot's picture

Maybe

You could tell them it would allow you to be more independent and self confidant? Or that it would make your life easier?

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jeff's picture

Umm...

I guess I'm unclear why your mom gets to weigh in on what you need in your life, unless it is more that since you are in her house, it is more about the upkeep about the dog in general that she is not keen on doing. Or if they are expensive and it's a financial burden, then OK, maybe she has a point.

But, if it is just about whether or not you need it, though, seems like a silly issue. I mean, it would make sense for you to understand what can improve your quality of life, no?

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scandalboy's picture

im a disability support

im a disability support worker, and i've just acquired a client with a service dog. and i have to say that the dog is just amazing, he just helps out my client so much, its amazing. i agree with jeff, if it will improve the quality of your life, i think its a good thing.