I get that nobody is perfect, believe me I get it! I also understand that every relationship has its problems, its pros and cons. I was asked with everything straining my current relationship with Heather why am I still with her? The answer to that question is simple...... I understand who she is, what she's about, and everything in between. Granted when we first met we didn't get along and really didn't have much to say to each other. Now we are close in an emotional way, which is what I think is important.

Like I mentioned forehand every relationship has its problems, its pros and cons. The pros of being with Heather is there are no mind games, no deep dark secrets, no ex lovers popping up when they please, and we match emotionally. The cons of our relationship are she is possessive,insecure,and holds a long grudge. I understand where Heather is coming from about me being close with my ex, granted I wouldn't like her to be hanging with her ex all the time. But she needs to understand although Jesse is my ex before she was one of my best friends and still is. I can't cut ties with Jesse, I have tried before and we ended up dating again. Jesse understands all the little things about me that Heather will never know or understand. But in the end I know that my friendship with Jesse holds a place in my heart than my relationship with Heather, and I feel like Heather senses it too.