Which way to go NOW??!!
So i let my FUCKING libido decide. I went to his place and we fucked each other like mad. [That would actually be an understatement.]
And now im losing my mind thinking about PREGNANCY.
Ive lost it,ive gona mad,officially.
WHAT IF I GET PREGNANT????!!!!!!
WHY THE F-U-C-K DINT WE USE A CONDOM??!!
Ok,so basically he "pre-ejaculated".We used to whole "withdrawal" method,u know?
But i fucking just read on www.teenwire.com that pre-ejaculation can ALSO cause pregnancy IF the penis was in contact with the vagina.
And fucking DUH it was! I havnt even told ANYONE about this great shit of mine! Non of my friends! Not even D!She'll kill me before i decide how im gona suicide!
I think im going psycho! Im checking up pregnancy symptoms and crap on the net. Stuff i dint think i wud look up UNTIL marraige or sumthng!!
I HATE MYSELF. FUCK HIM! I HATE HIM TOO! ARGH!
I swear,if im pregnant,im just gona hang myself and successfully die
FUCKING FUCKED UP LIFE!!!
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Err...
You successfully executed your desired booty call. Why do you hate him for giving you what you wanted?
And, yes, pre-ejaculate can get you pregnant (less likely, though), so pulling out is not birth control. But, yeah, since you did plan this in advance, not sure why birth control wouldn't have been part of the picture.
No point stressing about things. You could go to Planned Parenthood and get some RU-486, which is the morning after pill. I think you have 48 hours to take that. Beyond that, you'll either get pregnant or not, you'll know soon enough.
Use your stressing out now to make better, informed choices in the future. If you used condoms, you would only have to wonder why you messed around with your ex, as opposed to wondering if you're carrying his kid.
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Your advice is misleading.
Your advice is misleading.
Although it can be used as emergency contraceptive RU-486 is normally used as a medical abortificant. Not the same thing. Emergency contraception prevents a fertilised egg implanting itself in the lining of the womb, a medical abortion acts after implantation to cause shedding of the uteral lining (and the embryo along with it).
The difference is important because if you're opposed to abortion you have to know that the morning after pill is not the same as an abortificant. It does not terminate a pregnancy- it prevents one.
Also, the morning after pill is effective up to 72 hours after sex.
Your not likely to be given RU-486 (which is by the way a synthetic steroid which blocks the action of progesterone) as emergency contraceptive. Morning after pills typically contain progestin (mimics progesterone) or progestin and oestrogen- like daily birth control pills, but in higher doses.
They're a bit horrible and you basically get the worst period ever and emergency contraception is never as effective as pre-coital methods, but it's definately better than nothing and it's not an abortion.
Also, she lives in Dubai (according to her profile) and I'm not sure she can actually get the morning after pill.
Plus, she's scared and she doesn't need to be reminded she should make better choices- she is abundentally aware of that at the moment. If you can't help her, then don't try to. You came across facetious and that's the last thing she needs, until the test comes back negative.
Well...
That advice is based on the fact that her previous journal entry on here was about the fact that she set up the booty call with him, so it's not like some random event that just happened and they got caught up in the moment.
If you know about something in advance, then it is reasonable to take precautions.
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Calm down, ok so you're
Calm down, ok so you're living in Dubai and I'm not sure if you can get the morning after pill. But you need to speak to your doctor or a pharmacist as soon as possible because even if you can't there's still things you can do.
I've done some research for you. There are brands of birth control pills that can also act as emergency contraception.
This
website says you can get Microval, Neogynon, Microgynon-30 or Nordette where you live. These are all brands of birth control that can be used as emergency contraception.
Go talk to a pharmacist, ask them for help and do it fast because the sooner you go the better the chance is you won't become pregnant.
Also I don't know is whether or not you can get the IUD in Dubai, because that would work aw well. But basically, get yourself some form of emergency contraception and do it fast, but don't panic because you haven't ruined your life.
Also, although it is possible you might get pregnant from your boyfriend's pre-ejaculate, it's also probable you're not.
When did you last have your period? Because your chances of getting pregnant will differ hugely depending on whether or not your close to ovulation/ are ovulating. Withdrawel is a unreliable form of contraception, but that doesn't mean you are pregnant. It's still more likely that you're not pregnant, than that you are.
Talk to a professional, get some form of emergency contraception and try not to worry too much. I know that's impossible, but this will be ok, you just have to take this one step at a time.
Also, is there anyway you could tell your mother or anyone like that? Because the worst part of all this will be the fear and if you're close enough to someone responsible who can help you through this, it will be a lot less frightening.
ps- I know heaps of people who've had pregnancy scares or been in situations like yours... but none of them have the babies to show for it. They weren't pregnant and you're probably not either.
It will be ok.
hey girl
first of all, i agree with Lol-taire that you need to calm down.
why?
1) it has been scientifically shown that women who stress themselves out worrying that they have accidentally gotten pregnant are actually more likely to show and feel signs of pregnancy [morning sickness, vomiting, appetite changes, loss of period, late period, etc]. basically, just freaking out about possibly being pregnant can mess you up and confuse you even more... so please try to take some deep breaths and calm yourself now.
2) all that Lol-taire said above is very reasonable advice. i agree that you should take everything she said into consideration.
although i don't claim to be an expert of pregnancy, fertility, or birth control... i have had my fair share of dealing with those things. i have been on birth-control pills for a while, but i was originally put on them not for birth-control purposes, but because i have problem-periods and the pill was what my doctor prescribed to help regulate my cycle and remove my pain. after i met dave, i assumed that it would be fine to have sex with him without using a condom, since i have been on the pill for a while. however, after a few times of unprotected sex, i went to the doctor [for a totally unrelated reason], and he asked what meds i'm on, and it came up that I'm on the pill. anyways, he told me some things about my particular brand of the pill... and one of the things that i found out was that my brand is actually not considered a reliable method of birth-control! i was pretty surprised, since i had always thought it was marketed as a birth control pill that helped other things AS WELL. but, i was wrong. i now realize that over the past few months i totally could have gotten pregnant! thank g-d, i didn't... and there's a really high chance that you didn't get pregnant either. we all make mistakes, it's okay. again, i don't claim to be an expert on anything pertaining to sex or pregnancy, but if you need to talk to someone, i'm always here to listen if you feel like pm'ing me. best of luck hunny.