Human emotions are weird, fickle creatures. Don't pressure yourself to feel certain things... it won't work, it'll just serve to make you self-conscious and worried and maybe further inhibit your emotions, cause you're too busy feeling self-conscious. There's no one thing that should turn you on--arousal et. al. is majorly in your mind, and a complex bunch of circumstances contribute to it. Maybe things just weren't right. Maybe you were inhibiting yourself by feeling guilty of checking out a naked straight girl. Maybe you like her emotionally but not sexually, maybe you were in an ebb of affection....... there's no being sure why. But don't pressure yourself, don't think there's any situation in which you ought to feel anything. What you feel is what you feel and is therefore right. Don't stress.

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Graham: "Cheers make girls do stupid cartwheels. Orgasms make people feel good."
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If she's running around the hotel room in very little clothing, and getting dressed in front of you, sounds like she's comfortable/indifferent to doing it. You're the one reading into this, but there's nothing there to really question. If you aren't comfortable with showing off some naked flesh, you'd probably also not come out of the bathroom to finish getting dressed.

Also, your goal is intimacy, not seeing her naked. A flash of breast is fine, but not quiet the same as making out with her while you unhook her bra, so I don't think you can match the two just because there is overlapping imagery between the two.

Of course, the main thing is whether she knows you're into chicks, which would bring more clarity to her actions. I mean, if she knows you're into girls and sits on your laps, cuddles with you, and gives you a peep show, that's different than thinking she's having casual intimacy with her supposedly hetero girl friend.

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Maybe you didn't feel anything sexual because a) you were too embarresed for her b) you felt too guilty about seeing her naked body or c) you feel it's wrong to get these feelings for this straight friend, therefore your body did not become aroused. Nakedness does not create imediate arousal. I saw girls pretty much naked in the locker room for swimming, and it didn't arouse me. But when I see my girlfriend half naked, or even just without a shirt on, i can't help but attack her, one cuz it's fun, two because it excites me. It doesn't always excite me though, it depends on the time and the place. It's just how our bodies work. Our minds say no, it's not the right time, place, or person, therefore our bodies do not get aroused.

The next time someone asks you, "Hey, howdja get to be a homosexual anyway?" tell them, "Homosexuals are chosen first on talent, then interview... then the swimsuit and evening gown competition pretty much gets rid of the rest of them." ~Karen Williams

from one sistah to another...heres my take on this....
could it be some kind of longing...some kind of awakening? let me tell you the story of when I first thought I may be gay. I was 13 and at time when most girls were drooling over the guys i wanted nothing to do with them. I wanted the girls, but to fit in with societal norm I "dated" guys willing myself to fall in love with them, they were covers! anyway, as I was willing myself to fall for these great men (they are wonderful people who remain my friends still) I was falling for a woman twice my age. she was my attendant at the time and is now my best friend (the type you can say anything too) I would get really excited about the times she and i would spend together but those thoughts never were sexual in nature. That is until we went to a friends cottage and I woke up thinking god i would love to make out with her.....then i thought how gross and supressed the feelings for all women for five years before coming out in summer of 2006